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do you think this is fair?
When i was going out with another guy, Roy, my best guy freind Gerard, tried everything he could to break us up, he got to the point where he wasnt speaking to me until i brok up with Roy. Theyre best freinds, so i didnt see the problem. But then he came and told me he liked me, and that he wanted to go out, but just not now becuase he wasnt ready for a girlfriend, hes had too many broken hearts. Please keepin mond that ive liked him for a long time before this, but i thought i moved on. I guess i just have a soft spot in my heart for him. So i say yes, and that ive liked him for a long time. He made me break up with the guy, who i really liked. But i thought hed be worth it....he just told me he liked some other girl. Atleast hes being honest but you know, i did verything for him you know? And he didnt return the same feelings anymore, how could you do that to a girl? So then roy says then we broke up for nothing, and he tells me how much he still likes me, and i say well u like you too. Were going out now and im really happy cause gereard is okay with it this time. But i cant help feel deeply hurt by him. I love roy though, i just dont think ill be able to get over Gerard. What do you think?
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I think life's not fair. Especially when it comes to guys.
In my opinion, you are lucking Roy took you back. I probably wouldn't have. I'm sure you deeply hurt him. I think Gerard doesn't like you, because if he did, he would want to be with you. He knew you liked him, and when you started moving on to another guy [Roy] it pissed him off. So, he decided to break you two up. Once he accomplished that, he wanted nothing more to do with you.
It's always hard to get over a crush, no matter of the rude things they may do to you. But Gerard is an asshole. He doesn't like you. But Roy seems to, and he acts like a sweet guy. Give him a chance, and don't blow him off again.
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Well, of course it isn't 'fair'. Gerrard is a jerk and he mislead you.
But he didn't *make* you break up with Roy. You choose too. You choose to dump Roy for Gerrard, who told you he was interested, just not yet.
Simply remember this if Gerrard ever tries to play with your feelings agian or turn agianst you and Roy. Remember that he is interested in using you and having power over, he's not interested in your happiness at all.
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