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Rape, Possible Pregnancy and Parents
am so scared right now. Back on Dec 8th, i lost my virginity but it was more like a rape type thing. I didnt press charges or anything. He DID use protection. I still thought I was pregnant but my period was a few days late. So I took the test and it came out negative. So then on Christmas I got my period. I was happy as hell. On New Years Eve, I moved back home with my crazy mom who i still cant stand, i started school again, I was at the studio more, I changed my job site to a different school with bad kids and also a change in diet and exercise because i am obese and tryin to change my lifestyle. I havent got my period since Christmas. I did NOT have any signs of spotting or nausea like some of the symptoms. dont have none of that. My breast arent larger just stomache pains when i think about being pregnant. I asked my friends and 7 out of 8 said im not pregnant, that because of the activity my hormones changed because i had sex and that I am probably stressed. I use to be on birth control but stop Dec 2006. After that my period took it's own course like I had it vday 2007 but didnt get it again til end of April 2007. then it starts skippin weeks and months. Sometimes it just skips a month. But it feels weird not having it. It makes me nervous, Now I took an additional pregnancy test yesterday and it came out negative..... but im also a negative thinker because the worst always happen to me. Also I dont wanna have to tell my parents I was raped because they go crazy over anything. They used to come to school and argue with the principal when someone would call me " booger brain". It would be hard to say I dont know who the daddy is. Even if I did, i wouldnt want him in my life or the baby's if I am to have one..
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okay, this is a way bigger deal than i can just answer. so id go to a clinic. a lot of schools have them and many cities have free clinics. things are confidential and you can talk about what happened and get...like...a real pregnancy test (not just a store one). and if you're definently not pregnant you can ask about the stomach pains and missing periods. id say ask someone who can really give some factual advice.
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If you have had your period twice since the "rape," then you are not pregnant. It is possible to get your period after sex and still be pregnant, but if you have had it twice, the chance of sperm still being alive inside you is next to impossible, so don't worry about that.
On the second hand, keeping quiet is not the thing to do if you get raped! You have to tell someone. Honestly, at this point, it would be hard to press any charges on him, but you can still try. At the very least the word would get out, and maybe you can keep the same thing from happening to another girl just by making it known that he raped you.
However, you don't make it sound like it was complete rape. I don't know what the circumstances were, but if you explicitly stated to him that you did not want to have sex with him, and he forced you to, then it is rape. It either is or it isn't, there is no "rape like thing." He either forced you to have sex with him or he didn't. If you decide that he did rape you, then for god's sake, tell somebody!!
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