so i've been thinking about having anal sex and im just wondering how bad it hurts, how to do it and some friends who've done it tell me stories about how sometimes when the guy pulls out they have poop on them and im just wondering how much of this is fiction or fact
a) don't push yourself into it, if you are not ready, it will hurt like hell,
b)you have to be relaxed, and relax your butt muscles
c) use a condom to help prevent infections and accidental pregnacy
d) use A LOT of lubricant, like KY or something, lotions work too if you know you are both clean, but the oil can render the condom useless, so storebought lubs are recomended. i also read that vasiline is safe to use, but i personally would not recomend it.
and an extra tip, i did a bit of reading and found out that if you want to try, the easyest positions for him to enter are you on your stomach and in the spooning position, bot facing the same way. those positions do unfortunetly reduce the amout of movment that can be made
anna-14 answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 5:56 pm: It hurts pretty bad, but feels realll good at the same time. And yeah, I'm afraid that last sentence is a fact. That will happen, actually most of the time. [ anna-14's advice column | Ask anna-14 A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Monday March 3 2008, 2:20 pm: Well, considering that pooping is what your rectum is for, there will probably be some there.
Remember that you are sticking something in a hole that is only meant and designed for "exit only" so it'll probably not tickle in the least.
In fact, you can be injured out of the deal.
If you do decide to do such a thing, be sure that he wears a condom for anal and CHANGES the condom for intercourse.
This is not only to protect you against STDs, but to protect you from getting fecal matter in your vagina.
Fecal matter + vagina = BAD THING.
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