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Doing the impossible


Question Posted Sunday March 2 2008, 4:01 am

14/F

I know this is usually impossible but it has to happen. How can I stop liking someone? I am basically in love with my best guy friend, we are together alot and whenever im with him Im really happy and It hurts me everytime I see him leave. He likes my best friend, alot. Ive liked him for over a year and Im fed up with it. I recently broke up with my first boyfriend because it wasnt working out, basically because I didnt care about him nearly as much as I cared about Jason.(my best guy friend). I cant stand liking him anymore because I know for a fact he would never like me that way. I need to move on, but how?


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hershikissescanhelp answered Sunday March 2 2008, 8:17 pm:
hey,

Uggh, i know exactly how you feel. I beleieve everyone goes through that at least one point in their life. So he's your best friend..hmmm well i'm going to introduce you to a new method. See, when I felt like you currently feel now, I would write a letter. In that letter I would write everything that I love about him, basically the reasons why you like him. Then, after you're done read it. Finally, RIP IT..TEAR IT APART....I know it sounds a little crazy..but this this ,method acually works for me. I think you should try it. If you do, tell me it how it works out for you.

HOPE I HELPED

***HERSHI WISHES HUGS AND KISSES***

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myurlisunimportant answered Sunday March 2 2008, 9:02 am:
Spend less time with him and more with another friend.


But I also think you should take a chance and tell him.

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kronix answered Sunday March 2 2008, 7:52 am:
Don't hang around with him anymore.

Honey, just take a chance, tell him how you feel and see what he says... I mean theres like thousands if not millions of other guys out there that could be FOR YOU!

Hey, life's too short to not be taking chances.

So just tell him how you feel, and take a chance!!

Hope i helped and everything goes well!!

GOD BLESS!!

kronix

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