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My Bff, Crush, and I!
Ok there this boy that my bff and I both like. He talks to me and hugs me all the time, but he barely ever even looks at my bff. I don't know whether he likes me and i should make a move or he doesn't and I should back down?
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If this person is really your friend and u dont want to hurt them then just back down but if this friendship isnt worth it and wont last anyways go ahead and make a move it might be worth it. remember though that this crush may have different feelings so the crush and the bff could be gone
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It's hard to tell whether a guy likes you a lot, because many guys express friendship and liking in many different ways. I would drop hints that you like him, nothing to drastic, but just try to get it through his "boy brain" that you like him, and see what happens. I also realize you mention your best friend, are you worried you are going to hurt her if it works out with you and this guy? and does she know you like him? If she doesn't, I think you should deffinitley talk to her about it. I know the situations are tricky, but if she's really is your best friend, she should support you if it works out between you and your crush, just like you should support her if it were to go the other way. If you're worried about hurting her i think you should talk to her about it and make sure she knows you don't want to hurt her, but you really like him. : )
Good Luck.
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Personally, I think that it's a messy business pursuing a guy that you AND your friend like. Before you even think about making a move, talk to your bff about it. If she's like head-over-heels in love with this guy, it could get a little awkward if you and him go out.
Hopefully this helps a little...
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