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What's his game?
Okay.Kinda Long.Sorry. A few months ago i met a boy.He ended up liking me..asking me out.I said no.I just dont and wont feel the same way.We then still carried on as friends. I once added my best friend in a convo we had once...on msn. Then even though they didnt no eachother , he came to her saying he's heartbroken and cant get over me. My best friend thinks he is a FREAK i mean it really! Me and her are really close so..yes..anyway..she told him to get over it and go away. [ she's harsh like that]. Then a like a month later he kept hinting he liked me and then started saying he was depressed but he didnt no why and really started feeling sorry for himself. I told him to figure out why he was depressed and go from there. And now, randomly he started a convo with my best mate [ who thinks he is a freak..like really] and he asked her out [even though he dosnt no her]. She said yes because she wanted to scare him and stuff because he has never had a girlfriend before. Then she realised because he is depressed and wants to kill himself [ he told me he wants to kill himself] that she cant play along with it because if she dumped him or whatever..he might hurt himself. But i know for a fact he is such a attention seeker and has the perfect life. Seriously. And his best friend has got his first girlfriend and now the boy is like all upset about that like he's leaving him behind. My theory is that the boy that liked me asked out my best friend because he wanted to either get over me, try to make jelous [ which is not working at all], and try to be in compeition with his best friend, and asking out my best friend for his rebound. What do you think him asking out my best friend meant . They hardly no eachother! What's his game?
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Seriously this maybe harsh but the boys crazy! Maybe you should explain to him why you don't seem to have an interest in him. Explain it. this way you have a safe understanding and he doesn't jump off a building.
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Your theories are most likely correct. All of them: the trying to make you jealous, in competition with his best friend, and the rebound. This guy wants attention, any possible way he can get it. If he doesn't stop trying to make you feel guilty with suicide threats and what not, just ignore him. Chances are that he won't go through with it and he's just trying to guilt you into going out with him.
Your friend however needs to break up with this kid, because although he is trying to manipulate you guys, it doesn't make it right for her to manipulate him. This cycle won't stop until somebody decides to be the bigger person.
Anyways, like I said before, I would just ignore him completely if he's bothering you. He clearly can't just be friends with you, he has to have more than that. And all that drama isn't worth it.
Good luck with this kid.
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