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My name is Arielle, I'm 17 years old, but I know a lot about most things. I'm pregnant, and have learned a lot from the process. I'm a Christian, I'm in love, and everyone I know says I give really good advice. I will not answer your question if I feel like I couldn't give you good advice on it, but I will tell you I don't feel comfortable answering it. I won't just leave you hanging. Just a reminder that my advice is my opinion of the best solution for your situation with the information you give me, however, I can never fully know the situation, or your background. So if you do not feel comfortable with the advice I give you, please, go with your heart. That is the best advice I can give anyone FOLLOW YOUR HEART.



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"Humble yourself, therefore, under God's mighty hand, and He will lift you up in due time. Cast all your worries on Him because He cares for you."

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I really need help! Me and this guy, lets call him X, are like buds, but everyone teases me, especially this one guy, lets call him B, about us being in love! it is driving me crazy!!!!!!! This guy,B, ALWAYS teases me and says,"hey, why dont you go to X?" Where is X? Why dont you go to him!" it is soo annoying i want to PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE. LITERALLY.(I cant though, school would get me in troulbe, ahaha.) anyways, I need something to get guy B off of my back!
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But... I really have a strong feeling that guy X like likes me.

There are always going to be people like guy B that just don't understand that boys and girls can actually just be friends without liking each other. There really isn't much you can do to get rid of guy B. Usually the best thing to do is to just ignore him when he starts saying these things, give him no response at all. Don't get mad. Don't try to tell him it's not true, because then it may make you look like you're just trying to deny it, or you are embarrassed. If you ignore him, chances are he'll get bored because he's not getting to you anymore and leave you a lone. I know it's hard to do, but it usually works. As far as guy X goes, if you really do just want to be friends, and if you are really good friends, I think you should talk to him, and make sure HE knows your intentions. If you are good friends, you wouldn't want to ruin that friendship by accidentally leading him on. Make sure he knows you just want to be friends.
Good Luck : )

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Ok there this boy that my bff and I both like. He talks to me and hugs me all the time, but he barely ever even looks at my bff. I don't know whether he likes me and i should make a move or he doesn't and I should back down?

It's hard to tell whether a guy likes you a lot, because many guys express friendship and liking in many different ways. I would drop hints that you like him, nothing to drastic, but just try to get it through his "boy brain" that you like him, and see what happens. I also realize you mention your best friend, are you worried you are going to hurt her if it works out with you and this guy? and does she know you like him? If she doesn't, I think you should deffinitley talk to her about it. I know the situations are tricky, but if she's really is your best friend, she should support you if it works out between you and your crush, just like you should support her if it were to go the other way. If you're worried about hurting her i think you should talk to her about it and make sure she knows you don't want to hurt her, but you really like him. : )
Good Luck.

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ok. i will start crushing on a guy soooo hard and then when they ask me out someone that i liked more will come back into the picture. and it makes it really hard to be with someone. And i cant ever find a guy that is what i want. it doesnt mean i go and throw them away i give them a chance but they never wanna go anywhere. all they wanna do is talk on the phone and sometimes hang out in person. and to make it harder i dont look like im 13. i have been able to pass for 15 and 16. which odesnt help me at all in this case. i dont know if its that there scared to try and hold me hand or kiss me. i dont know cause i never bring it up cause i also dont want to give them the wrong idea... please help. all i want is to be happy with a guy.

I know this is really hard, and when I was in middle school I had the same problem, and at the time I felt just like you. Very confused and like I was never going to find the right guy. You need to remember that you are still young, and relationships in middle school, although they seem like a huge deal, rarely last very long. When you get in high school things will get much easier, and relationships will be more serious. You'll be more mature, and be able to decide better who you want to be with, and what you're looking for in a relationship. The relationships you are going through right now will help you determine what you want in a guy. The reason you are having a hard time deciding right now is because you aren't sure what you want in a guy yet. Just hang in there, the right guy will come for you soon. : )


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on all of juicy couture's stuff or website it says "Love G&P".....what is G and P???

if you read the "juicy story" G & P are the first letters of the first names of the girls that supposedly started Juicy. : )

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there is this song that goes like "im talking to you...but your not listening,i dont know what to do,my heart is"thats all i no.if you went to NUVO(A DANCERS DANCE PLACE) YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO ANSWER THIS.JUSTIN GILES OR RAY LEEPER TAUGHT A DANCE TO THIS SONG.WHOEVER NOS WHAT SONG THIS IS OR WHO SINGS IT PLEASE TELL ME

I searched it in google and got this
Joshua Radin - Sundrenched World.
the website was http://artists.letssingit.com/joshua-radin-lyrics-sundrenched-world-hqx45x7

you might want to take a look at the rest of the lyrics and see if it sounds familiar. : )

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I am taking the SATs for the very first time on Saturday. I'm a little nervous...How long is it? I've heard so many different answers. Any advice or helpful tips from past experience?

i recently took the sat for the first time also.
Don't be nervous! you can take the SAT as many times as you like, so try to look at the first one as sort of a practice run.
When I took it, it lasted about 4 hours, with a few short breaks. if i remember correctly there are 10 sections (they are pretty small, about 30 minutes each) and one writing section.

Good luck & don't be nervous! i'm sure you'll do great! : )

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Recently I've been searching through my clothes and wishing I had different things to wear; I know this sounds like I just need to go shopping, but the thing is, I sort of want to experiment with different styles of clothing. I've usually shopped at Hollister, and Abercrombie and Fitch, but all of their clothes have the same "look" to them, if you get what I'm saying. I do have a few pieces from target and wetseal, but nothing really outside of that. I don't want a drastic change, but just something different.

What are you guys' favorite styles to wear?
Pictures are a plus :)

maybe try for a vintage style. stores like forever 21 and express carry different styles of clothing that are unique, not just the typical "preppy" look that hollister and others carry.

if you go to this link http://www.forever21.com/looks/looks_main.asp
on forever 21's website, it shows different styles they carry, you can select one you like and see what they have to offer. again, these stores just carry clothes that will make your style a little different.

Happy shopping. : )

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So, Sadies is in about two weeks, and I have no idea how to ask my boyfriend. Oven's currently broken, I find the "scavenger hunt" kind of too cliche, and leaving little tidbits of clues here and there is, well, I don't know.
On top of that, just asking him straight up is kind of boring D: I sound picky.
Anywho, any suggestions ? I'd like to ask him sometime this week :)
Suggestions greatly appreciated !!

A couple of years ago my friends sister asked her boyfriend to Sadies and I thought her idea was really cute.
She got into his locker and put a bag of popped popcorn in it and then had a big sign that said "Just thought i'd Butter you up before I Popped the big question, Will you go to Sadies with me?".
Not too elaborate, but still cute. it may be too cheesy for you, but i thought it was a creative idea.

Hope this helps. : )

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how many weeks pregnant do you have to be, for you to take a test and it to be positive?

it's not about weeks it's about days after your missed period. If your periods are irregular, it's hard to tell, you'll have to keep testing. But if your periods are regular, and you have missed your period, the test should be accurate. I think first response advertises that they can tell usually 5 days before your missed period.

I hope this helps. : )

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i just got a new laptop and i have my iTunes on my other desktop computer. and my sister said that their is something that i can go to on the Itunes website that can let me enter my account name and stuff and it will transfer my itunes from my account and put it on this computer. is their anyway that i can do that? i already looked on the itunes site.

thanks for all your help!

well if your music is all on your ipod, then you can transfer it by plugging your ipod into your new computer. You will have to authorize the new computer to transfer your purchased music. I got a new laptop for Christmas, and had no problem transferring my music this way.

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Well, I heard that soon after you have your period you are the least fertile. I was just wondering how true this statement is. If it isn't true, then when are you least fertile?

Just wanted to back up the person who answered before me. I also got pregnant right after my period. So that statement is completely false.

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there's a taken guy(gabe)i've been talking to and he gives me the greatest feeling in the world.
but he asks me some personal stuff and i answer and i feel like we're friends and then i just think in the back of my mind that he's just using me. i've been going through something really hard and he said no matter what he'd be there and he's glad we started talking. and even one night he told me that i was a great girl and would make some really lucky guy really happy!
what the heeeck??
he says he'll never like another girl b/c of his girlfriend...i'm not sure i believe that..
he just.. gives me this feeling.

anything will do =)

Now, I don't know enough about this Gabe to be able to tell for sure, but he reminds me a lot of an ex-boyfriend I once had. Before we started dating, he said we were "best friends", and I totally bought it. He was dating one of my best girlfriends, and I just thought that we were getting close because of her. However, something didn't seem right. He started calling me late at night, and then he would give me all the details of their relationship. At the beginning, he said the same things as Gabe here does, that he only liked his girlfriend. But soon it became very obvious this wasn't the case. Later, when I did date him, I realized through myspace and other sources, that he did this to a lot of girls he had recently met. He was what they like to call a PLAYER. Like I said, I don't know enough about Gabe to tell you for sure it's the same circumstance, but if he seems too good to be true, he probably is.

I hope this helps. : )

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Me and a friend that I had been best friends with since third grade were in a huge fight for a year, & just yesterday we apologized to each other. We're friends again, but something doesn't feel right. I still feel guilty/nervous about something, but I can't figure out what it is. It's like I want to be her friend, but I'm scared to? I don't know. How can I stop feeling like this?

It's probably still somewhat awkward for both of you since you were in a fight for a year. You probably still feel like this because somewhere inside of you there are still hurt feelings from whatever happened, and she is probably feeling the same way. My best advice to you would be to simply talk to her about it. My best bet is that if you are feeling this way that she is too, and there are probably some unresolved issues still. If you talk to her i think things will feel better, and you won't be scared to be her friend.

I hope this helps. : )

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