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really a friend or not.
there's a taken guy(gabe)i've been talking to and he gives me the greatest feeling in the world.
but he asks me some personal stuff and i answer and i feel like we're friends and then i just think in the back of my mind that he's just using me. i've been going through something really hard and he said no matter what he'd be there and he's glad we started talking. and even one night he told me that i was a great girl and would make some really lucky guy really happy!
what the heeeck??
he says he'll never like another girl b/c of his girlfriend...i'm not sure i believe that..
he just.. gives me this feeling.
anything will do =)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
He is not useing you. He probably wants to be good friends with you and the way he does that is to ask questions. He is telling you are great because you are. He is more than likely the sensitive type that really does care about people.
He might have said that about his gf but you never know what he is actually thinking. He is probably torn between his gf and you.
If it is meant to be it will work out.
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Now, I don't know enough about this Gabe to be able to tell for sure, but he reminds me a lot of an ex-boyfriend I once had. Before we started dating, he said we were "best friends", and I totally bought it. He was dating one of my best girlfriends, and I just thought that we were getting close because of her. However, something didn't seem right. He started calling me late at night, and then he would give me all the details of their relationship. At the beginning, he said the same things as Gabe here does, that he only liked his girlfriend. But soon it became very obvious this wasn't the case. Later, when I did date him, I realized through myspace and other sources, that he did this to a lot of girls he had recently met. He was what they like to call a PLAYER. Like I said, I don't know enough about Gabe to tell you for sure it's the same circumstance, but if he seems too good to be true, he probably is.
I hope this helps. : )
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