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Thank you for you great advise, you wanted to know how it went well.. Today at school in R.S i had to sit opposite her i handed over her present just saying 'here you go' she said 'why are you being so shitty with me' then i ran out of the classroom!! When i got back the present was on my desk so i just left it. I ignored her all lesson as usual she was just being her innnocent self flirting with the boys.. My friend at break asked me what going on she said just some her up in 2 or 3 words i said ungrateful bitch, she then and told her this with was lovely of her!! Because after break she goes sarcasticlly shouting and making a scene whilst walking away from me " ohh im such a ungrateful bitch" In science last lesson she came over to my table and the end of the lesson and just stood there looking at me smiling she said Do you want to talk or something? as she alked of she said probabably not as i am a ungrateful bitch! At the very end of the lesson i walked over to her and she said you've been ignoring me for like a week now, i said that because you've been taking out all of you anger on me, i ave her her present and she thanked me alot. she neve said sorry though :S Shes having a bday gathering tonight with all of out group of friends and im not invited, i thought she would at leaast invite me after we spoke but she didnt.. Im not looking forward to tomorrow as i dont really know what to say to her and shes going to be centre of attention again. I dont think we will ever be as close as we use to be know which is quite upsetting. She is obsessed with me going off with this girl sal who i am very close to thats al she ever says in arguements 'well you were pissing me off because you go off with sal' yet again she twisted it around even in this arguement when she was ion the wrong.........
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Its okay, I had a really close friend up until about a year ago, we were best friends since kindergarten, so I know how you feel on the whole loosing a friend part. Maybe you and Sal are just better friends than you would ever be with her, and she might have distracted you from that. Next time you have a gathering, I would not blame you if you didnt invite her either. And if I were you, I would just blow off the whole thing, because it sounds like she really just wants to create attention for herself (like you menchoned) the best thing to do (like you said you wanted
:-]) is to not give her the benefit of the doubt, by giving her the attention. It will not hurt to be friendly, but it does not mean you two have to remain the best of friends. It will take some time, but you will get used to it. Just surround yourself with other friends right now, and take your mind off of her. It sounds like sal is going to be a big help to you for now on :-] dont push her away. Best of luck to you, and if you need anymore help, just know that my inbox will always have space for you!!!!! Thanks for letting me know how it went, and I am so sorry for the outcome, but trust me when I tell you that it is better to be "school friends" with her than to have drama drama drama all the time. I think that you handled the situation very well, and just remember never to stoupe to her level!
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