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What should I do
ok see around sept i tried datin my best friend who happened to be a guy. well we dated and like we were in love with each other so much. but i moved and we both broke up and moved on. but the whole time i was gone we both had feelings for each other still. well i move back and everytime i see him he always touches me and all that. but he got out of a bad relationship and i feel im just a rebound to him. i don't know but i took his virginity... and i don't know he says he wants to date me again but i don't think i could...what do you think i should do...i really dont think he likes me cause he likes to many people..hes always over everyone..
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Tell him that you are the only one you want him to have feelings for. don't date someone if they like 349448487 other people.
it wont work. especially if they are the flirty type of people.
i think you should talk to him about it.
find out what he wants with you, if its the same thing he wants from the other people he likes. but if you want to be with him take a chance.
good luck.
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No you're not the rebound if you both had feelings for each other like that. Even when you moved away you say that you each had feelings for each other still. So what if he got out of a bad relationship? Hearts heal. He could very much still be in love with you. And remember it wasn't this OTHER girl that took his virginity. He chose you. As to him liking other people that's normal as long as it doesn't go anywhere. There are a lot of good looking people in the world. Have some faith in him. Maybe even try out your communication skills and talk to him.
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In this case you should do what makes you feel comfortable. If not getting back together is what you want then you have to tell him for now that what you want. Maybe tell him that you want to stay friends for now and see where things end up in time. Over time he will get over his last relationship and by then you will be able to tell if he is wanting you or just someone else to keep him from being alone. Do what you feel comfortable with no matter what the other person wants.
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Well, it's best to see how this plays out. Like you said, he's on the rebound and he is getting over the last realtionship.
Wait for a while (two weeks, give or take a week) and then ask him what his feelings are for you because you like him, but you need to see whether he likes you and then you can see whether to take this relationship further.
Remember, he needs to have his space for a while so give it to him.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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