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VIRGIN?
I'm going to the doctor tomorrow for a virginity test. I don't want to break my mom's heart. Is there anyway I can make it seem like I'm a virgin? They are checking physically..any advice?
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Like the poster said there's no such thing as a virginity test. Your mother may however be taking you to a gynecologist for a routine exam. Like the poster below said all they can tell is whether or not your hymen is broken but not by what.
A short article at GURL.COM that I just read and am enclosing the link for indicates that you MUST be truthful with the doctor and tell them about your sexual history. If you don't it can be detrimental towards your health. NEVER lie to a medical professional ever.
Will your mother find out? According to the article she won't because doctors must keep things you tell them confidential unless you are in danger or your health is.
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Also this is helpful about what the doctor actually does so you can put your mind at ease: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
You might as well be honest with your mother. She probably already knows what's happening or suspects it. She would rather you told her the truth than hid it. Your mom would want you safe and on birth control rather than pregnant.
Nobody said this was going to be easy but I genuinely believe there should be no secrets between you and her whether it's about virginity or not. She might not be happy about it but will be about one key issue: that you had the responsibility to tell her and seek her advice to use birth control.
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Dont worry you could of popped your cherry in many diffrent ways like horse back riding or bycicaling and many more.
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im not sure what you mean by a virginity test cause i ddint know there was one. i know doctors can see if your hymen is broken but that can happen from sports like horseback riding or tampons and other things too. plus your virginity isnt a real thing-its not something you can see, etc. its something that means your first time. idk if you want to lie but if they say something you could just say oh ya i think it broke when i was putting in my tampon this one time... or when i was horseback riding last summer but i dont think they would say something
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There isn't any way to tell just by looking at you.
Your hymen could be broken for a number of reasons.
Don't worry about it at all.
-LM
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