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being turned on
whenever i know that my boyfriend CANT finger me, like when his parents around or we're out in public, i get really turned on because i want it so bad but i know i cant have it. sometimes if i know he can finger me i still get wet and turned on like while he just runs his hands like against my thighs and inside my legs. then for the first minute or so when he's actually fingering me, like inside, the wet just goes away, and im not really turned on anymore. any advice how to stay turned on through the whole thing?
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Well when hes fingering you, think about stuff that does turn you on, like sex, or his dick aha. The same thing happens to me, so i just think about those things, and i get right back into the mood i was in before.
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It's actually normal.
I've had more than one person say that "the potential for getting caught is a huge turn-on"
So maybe you could pretend that you were in a situation where you could be getting caught at any moment.
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Being sexually aroused when it's not appropriate is actually really common! But when he actually starts, and you get turned off, this might be a problem with your boyfriend. Either he's not doing it right, or you're more attracted to the idea of being pleasured than HIM pleasuring you. If it doesn't feel good when he's doing it, maybe lead his hand in the right direction or something. It could be that your sexual chemistry with him just isn't right. Or maybe that's wrong. Try doing things to put you in the mood. Like turning on music, undressing him, pleasuring each other at the same time... I hope I helped.
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