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my best friend is pregnant
.. my subject explains it. i havhe a 14 year old best friend who is due with a baby in july. i have no idea wut 2 do shes keeping it her mom kicked her out she lives with her dad who doesnt care about her. my mom doesnt want me hanging around her becuz shes preg and made a bad choice but ive also had sex 2 times and didnt get preg. she only did once and the condem broke. how do i help her ?
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The best and only thing you can do is be there for her. She needs you now more than ever, and you should deffinitely explain that to your mom.
The only thing you cuold really do for her right now is hold her hand, and just talk to her when she needs someone. You need to be her backbone and support, since she is lacking that from her family.
Take her mistake and learn from it. Get put on birth control so this doesn't happen to you as well.
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well my friend recently had a baby (she is 17) but babies are a really big responsibility. im sure everything will go alright soon enough. parents are suppose to love their children unconditionally no matter what happens, so chances are, her mom will let her come back with her soon...i hope. its very hard, but you need to somehow let her know that you are there to support her all the way. she needs you especially now. as for yourself, if you plan on to continue having sex, maybe be put on birth control as well as use condoms for extra protection, so you have double protection. however, as im sure you are well aware, abstinance is the only sure way to not get pregnant or contract STDs and AIDs. i dont really think that 14 is old enough to be sexually active. not trying to reprimand you, but you are still developing into adulthood and the stress from school is overwhelming enough, plus guys tend to take advantage of younger girls. but you can take that for whatever it is worth.
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Just be her friend as best you can be.
I was her once only not as young. I
know parents somehow feel it is catching
I guess.
It can happen to anyone very easily.
Condoms break all the time. Please
be careful yourself. 14 is way to
young to have that responsibility.
Call her, use the internet to communicate
if you can. Just communicate with her.
You can't do much at your age if your
mom just strictly forbids your seeing her.
There are those other ways to keep in
touch though. Use them. Let her talk to
you about what she is going through. Be
a good listener. :)
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You shouldn't leave your best friend just because she made a mistake. Things happen. On the other hand, living with her dad who doesn't care about her isn't the best chice for someone who is going to have a baby. Is she able to take care of the baby until it's off to college? Having/taking care of a baby isn't cheap, or fun. Don't leave her just because she messed up, she needs friends right now more then anything I'm sure. Theirs nothing you can do to help her; I mean what do you want to do to help her? Just don't leave her, and ask her questions, make her excited to have someone new in her life. Do you know if she's putting it up for adopiton? Next time you see her, give her a big hug and tell her you care for her. It means a lot just to be hugged sometimes.
- Hope I helped!
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