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Well i met a boy on bebo ages ago and hes rly nice, hes got a nice personality and hes good lookin and hes a guy id go out with but he thinks im stunnin but im not! hes seen a picture of me and all that but im not that pretty but he thinks i am, i try 2 keep tellin him that im fat and he wouldnt like me (its true) but im to scared to tell him incase he wont talk 2 me anymore...
wat should i do??
Thanks
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Hi! First, stop being so harsh on yourself! Maybe you think that he wouldn't like you, but heres the thing, you're not him. If you continue to be so negative it might turn him away. You seem to like him and he seems to like you just the way you are! Don't spoil something just because you can't believe its true! I say keep talking and go for it and try to accept yourself because he seems to have.
Good luck and I hope I helped!
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Well, I kind of know where you're coming from, only not completely.
I think you should be honest and be yourself when talking to him, but you should stop being so negative. I don't mean to be harsh, but eventually [if you keep up the constant pessimism and such] he's going to get sick of it and stop talking to you. So you think he wouldn't like you, who cares? Obviously, he likes you enough right now to continue talking to you and to be a friend to you. Your negative attitude is only hurting your chance of friendship and whatnot with this boy.
Plus, you never know if he wouldn't like you or if he would think you're ugly or fat, because you guys have never met. Just because you don't like some things about yourself doesn't mean he won't.
Bottom line:
Stop being so darn negative, and just be thankful he's your friend at all. Different people have different opinions. You might think you're ugly, but other people [like your friend in this question] might think otherwise. If everyone had the same opinion, the world would be a pretty dull place, wouldn't it now?
-Laura. (16-f)
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well if he says your pretty and he has a picture of you then give it a try. you might not believe this but i haave helped alot of people in your same situation. if he has a full body picture of you and he says your pretty then he doese . you have to give guys a chance sometimes they are jerks and very few times they are nice.if he only has a face picture then give him a full body picture. if he runs away then forget him! that means he's only there for the cookies!
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Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!
If, he has a good personality , and if he is realy
nice he won't care how you look. Lots of guys are
like that, some guys are realy nice and caring but
it's true some guys are jerks and only care how your
body looks or how your face looks. I think you should tell him how you look but , tell him in
cofidence though! Guy's love girls that have confidence!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)
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Guys don't like it when girls don't show conddfidence. It doesn't matter if your butt ugly. Beuty is only skin deep. If he likes you for you...let him. Are you ever going to meet him in person? Then, worry about that then. If he's seen a picture of you and thinks your stunning than you probally are. Constantly telling guys your flaws is annoying. Don't tell him. He likes you for you..and thats all that matters. But make sure your being safe online. No personal infor...he may not be who you think he is.
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