ok, i am 15female, and i really just want to have sex so bad, but i am not going to because i am not ready yet, but i crave it. masturbating does not help me, at all. and if i look up sites on the internet, that are blunt, my parents would catch me. is there anything i could do? please help! (maybe a disguised address) please help!!!!
ChevyIINova answered Saturday February 9 2008, 1:32 am: I know you said you are not ready yet, but I am still going to harp on you.
Sex = children. You play you pay.
You gotta ask yourself. "Am I able to take responsibility for my actions?"
Sex is a natural human desire. There's nothing wrong with sex. However, if you have sex you must be willing to take responsibility for another person for the next 18 years. Now, is that few minutes of pleasure worth it? I know what you are thinking. "I'll use protection." Birth control doesn't always work. I now have two kids because my second one decided birth control wasn't going to stop him. It's best to just wait. Who knows, the guy you hook up with may sound nice and promise you this and that but will he? A lot of guys aren't willing to give up their freedom to support a woman and a kid, especially if their soul intention was just to have sex in the first place. So, the burden will more than likely be placed on your head. It's a sad fact but true. Try this if you are having trouble, take a walk, watch TV, eat if you have to. We don't need another statistic.
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cheifbritneeilu answered Saturday February 9 2008, 1:20 am: What is it about the teenage society where most crave sexual relations. I'm glad you realize your not ready and your not having sex while your not it shows your mature. Anyway have you tried a vibrator or dildo. Spencers sells them you could order one of the internet and say it shipped the wrong thing if your parents see it. or you could get like a handmassager thing which might work [i wouldn't know ha] But try that. [ cheifbritneeilu's advice column | Ask cheifbritneeilu A Question ]
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