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this is going to sound super shallowww.
i really really really like this kid. but, hes not cute. at all. i mean i deff. like him for his personality. hes not the type of guy i would ever date. all my boyfriends were usually football or baseball players or something. this kid is deff. far from that. i wanna like him, and i know he likes me. but, i know.. if i went out with him, people would make fun of me. i dont know if id kiss him or anything, because i'm not attracted to him like that, i mean i kinda am. but idk. do you think its worth it? it seems though, as eeach day goes by, i like him more and more. its like i have a disease.
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i went through something similar to you before. this great guy who treated me like gold, but wasnt attractive. i wasnt concerned about what people would say, i just really wasnt attracted. i couldnt picture myself kissing him, nothing. so i knew i wouldnt be happy in the relationship. so i know that sounds shallow, but if he is someone you can see yourself being cuddly and kissy with, its a boyfriend material guy. if you cant stand the thought, then there is no point in dating him if you know you will be miserable, not feeling it, and leading him on. so it might be better as friends.
maybe the idea of him being so nice is attractive to you, but if you would feel uncomfortable kissing him, its like dating someone for the heck of it. maybe if you keep hanging out you will ignore his flaws and be perfectly okay with the unattractive parts.,but if you cant get past the looks,it will just be a mess in my opinion.
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I know you don't want to date an unnattractive person, no matter how much you like them. But, maybe you should take a stand and ask him out and take a shot with him. If anyone makes fun of you, just tell them that you like him and don't care that he's not hott. It doesn't matter what other people think. As long as your happy.
got ur feedback sry 4got 2 answer that...here it is...
OK so maybe if you went out with him you'd just totally get over the unattractiveness and be comfortable kissing him and stuff.
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Yes.It does sound super shallow. If you like someone you like someone and looks shouldnt matter, its about the personality and how much of a beautiful person they are inside. So what if people make fun you YOU SHOULDNT CARE what they think, as long as you "love"/"like" eachother it shouldnt matter. What if you were th ugly one.how would you feel to know that you're just not pretty enough for them. What if he said that to you, how would you feel? Exactly. If he is sweet, kind , loving ,funny, nice, loyal why would you want to pass up such a great guy? You shouldnt stop yourself for liking someone because of other people. They dont CONTROLL you. Besides, they will be the ones missing out on a great boy.
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yeah your right. that sounds shallow. lol. but thats ok.
you know what? who cares about looks besides everyone???? i mean, i'd go for it. if you like him, just get over it and go for it!!
take careee!! :)
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I think you should go for it. You should care of what other people think. If he makes you happy, then date him. If you "friends" make fun of you then their not really your friends at all. I would rather have a person in my life that makes me happy, then fake friends that will make fun of me. <33
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