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is his love.....
Well to start off , me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. He always say he loves me more and cares about me more than i do for him. Buy seriously i dont think its truley the way he feels , i think im the one who loves him more like wth all my heart i think that . Id do anything for that boy , he also will to . But i mean i just wish he would show we he loves me more , i just dont want his feelings to go away and i hope there not . What should i do because everytime i tell him the way i feel he gets mad and says whatever i love you more end of story and he is just like mad and stuff. So what do i do ? i want him to appriciate me more ''/
so answer these please
- what do i do to get him to show more love?
- How do you know if a boy's feelings are fading for you ?
thanks <3 & i want a lot of answers
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If he gets all mad and stuff like that go up behind him and put your arms around him and in a sweet yet kinda sexy way say "i love you baby, and if you love me more then prove it" Its kind a like a challenge and guys love challenges. i would totally do that if i were in your situation. But if all else fails you have to tell him how you feel and you cant let it bottle up inside you.
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He seems to care about you very much. A boy would not continually declare their love for you unless they truly meant it. Perhaps you could talk to him sincerely about your concerns. If he truly loves you he will listen to your thoughts. Tell him how much you care about him and how happy you are that he cares for you as well. Instead of saying you don't believe his feelings are sincere, show him your sincere feelings and his will follow. Just be truthful and tell how you are feeling, not how you think he has been feeling. Best of luck! =D
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If you show him more love he will do the same.
If his feelings are fading conversations between the 2 of you won't run as smooth as they use to. Another sign of his feelings fading is if he wasn't as into to you as he was when you first started. But considering what he says that he loves you more then you love him it's normal he is pretty much saying that he doesn't want you to think that he will ever stop loving you. Best of luck
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First off, some people just have a hard time showing emotion, especially males. I have been married for 6 years and sometimes it's still hard to get him to show me emotions. You can, however, notice the small things that he does to make you happy, even if it's not affectionally so. Like, does he make sure that you are happy, getting everything you need (that he can manage to give you), does he go out of his way to make you smile?
Think of it this way, if he's still there, and treating you good, chances are he truly does have feelings for you, just unable to show them like you do.
I wouldn't worry about it unless he starts showing you signs of unhappiness. If that happens, be sure to clearly communicate with him, but don't pressure or pursue the issue so that it makes him unhappy. When he feels it's the right time to communicate, he will. Good Luck!!
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Hi!
For me to answer your question i need to tell you a little story...I was never good in relationships...My longest one was 3 weeks[pathetic i know].I guess none of them felt like the right one...Well..when i met my boyfriend,i felt it!I just KNEW!We started off amazing..and then things started fading..He didnt SHOW ME that he loved me anymore.It was all just words but all the actions he took were opposite of them.One day i was just tired of crying and worrying,so i let him go...Being without him killed me.I had my friends going on shifts,staying with me so i wont be alone...GUESS WHAT!!2 days later he called me for us to talk...We got back together..He told me when he lost me..the first day he didnt care,but then he woke up the next day and felt...empty!Things have been amazing now and he does something EVERY DAY to show me how much he loves me.
SO,what i am saying is..Just because he doesnt show you,does not mean he doesnt love you.Just let him know you want something more than words.And show him more love,which i am pretty sure you are already doing,but just step it up,MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND what you are asking for.Because sometimes they dont get it.Sorry for it being long,and i am pretty sure you werent looking for another persons story.But i just wanted you to know this happened to me too.I know how you feel!
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