i changed schools in the middle of this yr and its a super small school. i really like my friends but they are very judgemental and all have money. i have no problems with them and like them a lot but my bf is not that attractive generally and doesnt have much monay at all. i want to bring him to the dance in a month or so but im afraid my friends will judge him. im seriously not trying to be stuck up or anything but i dont want them saying something mean...i hope you understand and please im def. bringing him to Prom and this is only Sadie's but its the only other dance and i want him to so...idk thanx so much! :]
plumeria112 answered Thursday January 31 2008, 8:08 pm: Okay, I see what's wrong. Well, personally i think that if you really truly like him you'll bring him to the dance and just don't care what anyone has to say about it. If you really feel like you don't want to show your friends this guy, maybe it's time for you to find a new bf. [ plumeria112's advice column | Ask plumeria112 A Question ]
LM answered Thursday January 31 2008, 8:07 pm: Why would the topic of money come up? It's a dance. If they're going to think less of you because your boyfriend doesn't have as much money as they do, they aren't very good friends. I wouldn't worry about it at all, and I'd go to the dance and have a good time. That's what dances are for.
MzJENNiFER answered Thursday January 31 2008, 7:52 pm: Well, hun, if you are worried that your friends are going to stick up their noses, they aren't friends. I understand you may get a few chuckles but if they are your true friends, they'll have your back no matter what and accept your boyfriend for the real person he is.
If your friends say something mean, just let it go and have a good time at the dance. Don't let it get to you. They aren't worth your breath, tears, sorrow, or even companionship. [ MzJENNiFER's advice column | Ask MzJENNiFER A Question ]
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