If you're giving a speech in a class:
1. Practice before giving the speech in front of the class. This way, you'll know it and be much more comfortable than if you're just reading it for the first time.
2. I'm sure eye contact is probably part of your grade, so when you need to make eye contact, look at a friend. When you look up, look at somebody you're friends/comfortable with the first time. Then, as you get more comfortable, start looking at other. Or, just keep looking at friends.
3. Make sure you have all the requirments/time limits right. I know this might sound lame, but it helps. When you know you have everything right, you won't be stressing out when reading, wondering 'Am I going to be talking long enough?' or 'Did I cover all my points?'.
When giving a speech at an assembly, etc:
1. Practice even more, and in front of people. Again, this way you will be a lot more comfortable when you're up there speaking.
2. When it comes to eye contact, try not looking at anyone specific. What I have done, is just look at the crowd in general. This way, I'm not focused on somebody if they're distracting or nervous if I'm looking at somebody I don't know.
3. Breathe. This is an obvious one, but breathe in slowly, and stay calm. Don't freak out just because there's a crowd. Just breathe, stay focused on what you're saying, and get it over with (sorry if that sounded negative).
S_C answered Thursday January 31 2008, 6:20 pm: If you're still in high school you can take speech and debate classes.
If not you can always look online for methods. Just google "public speaking help".
I'm in a speech and debate class just because I love speaking and debating topics. For a lot of people in my class they're in it to become more comfortable. It's a great way to meet new people and become a lot more comfortable in front of a large group of people. [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
yourlollipopgurl answered Thursday January 31 2008, 6:19 pm: ok this may sound stupid but this is actually how i do it i think about all my friends and that they are the audience and think that your like talking one on one with your friends for me it makes me more comfortable with the situation.
as i always say aint no thang but a chicken waang lolz . hope this helpz and don't worry
ive never heard of sumone dyin from makin a speech. [ yourlollipopgurl's advice column | Ask yourlollipopgurl A Question ]
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