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I have two main problems with sex with my boyfriend
first, he waits for me to finish, pulls out, then takes off the condom and finishes.
at first I respected that he liked it, and its his bed, so whatever
but now its getting gross. is this normal? should I ask him to finish in the condom?
second, he's never gone down on me. hes fingered me and ive done everything to him, but hes never done it to me. ive tried gently pushing his head down but he doesnt get it. is this normal? should I be less subtle?
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Basically, if you don't want him finishing in you, just tell him. He has to respect your decisions.
You can talk to him about going down on you, but if he doesn't want to, you can't force him. You have to respect his decisions, too.
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well if you feel you want him to finish in the condom then maybe you should talk to him about it and see why he doesnt.. i wouldnt say its normal ive never heard anyone doing this before but maybe it feels better for him without the condom.. idk talk to him about it..
and if you want him to go down on you maybe you should just ask him to? and see what happens or ask him why he doesnt want to.
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