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"Invited"
I'm 16/f- Sorry if this is long. One of the girls I met this year is throwing her sweet 16 party soon.At first I wasn't even on her invite list. We aren't that close, it's more like we're acquaintances. But I'm pretty close friends with a guy who the birthday girl would LOVE to go out with, and when he got his invitation to the party I was right next to him. He asked if I was going and of course I said "No, I'm not exactly invited." At this he said "Well I'd go if you went too." All of the sudden I'm invited, VIP, the works. I'm not stupid and I know I'm being used, but should I go anyway?
Thanks,
"Invited"mybutt!
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aw thats cute! your guy friend may like you as more than a friend. def go, and it will be hilarious to see how jealous the birthday girl gets when she sees you dancing with him.go and enjoy, you dont even have to talk to the bday girl. enjoy the food and have fun!
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haha, i would definitely go, regardless of the situation! if it sucks, you can always leave, but it would suck even more to hear about how awesome the party was or whatever if you decided not to go.
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Ha, if it's going to be a kick ass party and there's going to be good food and great fun? Who cares if you were invited or not. Obviously this boy that helped to get you "invited" likes you enough to to only go if you're going. And it doesn't sound like he even likes the birthday girl all that much if he will only go under certain circumstances. So if you are in good company and have nothing to on this particular Friday (or Saturday) night, I'd say go for it. If the girl is a total bitch and you are only going because your guy friend is going, then I would just go to the movies that night and see Juno for the 3rd time. Yeah.
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Go if (a)you will talk to the boy, and (b) you want to. But you should probably tell her that you the VIP isnt necessary, or at least be like, you really don't have to do all this, you can just ask me to talk to Sam for you. But when you do this make sure you don't do it infront of other people, or shell get mad at you. Just talk to her and tell her that youre pretty sure shes jsut doing this to get closer to your friend and tell her that she can hang out with the two of you or something. Also, find out how he feels about her before you do anything. Just so you know.
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