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fall for my best friend
Over the last few years i have stared to have feelings for an old friend, which is now my boss. But due to the work relationship and the strong friendship I have with her I try do everything to make her life easier and more enjoyable in every way with out letting on. If she found out my feeling it would make things more difficult for her and myself to work in the same area. I'm also scared that if she found out and not interested it would be even worse for us. Could any one help with some advise.
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DON'T EVER GO OUT WITH YOUR BOSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I cannot stress this enough.
Imagine if things didn't work out!! She could fire you!
Also, people could say you're getting special treatment.
There are plenty of fish in the sea who you're not working for...
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When working for somebody who doesn't know that you've got feelings for them is difficult. Sometimes it works out and everything is okay, but feelings can be distractions when working and i'm sure you don't want that.
Ask her to see whether she's seeing anybody at the moment and see what happens. Ask whether the you two could go out together and see what she says. If it's not possbile, apologise. If it's okay, go out with her.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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