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date?


Question Posted Monday January 21 2008, 3:55 pm

i know this is kind of stupid. but if a guy asks you to have coffee with him would it be called a date? i've only been friends with him for less than a week, he's a nice guy but he doesn't make me laugh and he's not my type. should i say yes to someone like that?

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uisforukelele answered Monday January 21 2008, 9:19 pm:
i'd give him the benefit of the doubt and say yes- but make sure that if he mentions it being a "date" or even seeing you again or something, stress to him that you only want to be friends. i mean, for all we know, you could have the time of your life with this guy... however, if he starts hinting at being more than friends, it's best to cut it off (especially if you have no feelings for him whatsoever).

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looneytune1561 answered Monday January 21 2008, 7:13 pm:
If you like his company you should go out to have coffee with him but if your not interested in him as a boyfriend then you should make it clear to him first because he might think your leading him on if you dont.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Monday January 21 2008, 4:56 pm:
It could really go either way. It may be romantic, it may not be. Unless he specifically calls it a date you probably won't know until you actually go get coffee with him. You should give him a shot since you don't know him very well. He could be different than you think he is.

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MzJENNiFER answered Monday January 21 2008, 4:53 pm:
Well, I would confirm it with this guy. Since he just met you, maybe he's just trying to get to know you. I would recommend to say yes and who knows? You just might have fun.

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thelaura answered Monday January 21 2008, 4:48 pm:
It could be a date. but because you haven't known him long, he might just want to make better friends with you.
Unless you make it clear it's strictly as friends, so you don't end up leading him on (if he does like you in *that* way) there's no harm in it. Who knows, you might have a really nice time.

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