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[[Took Something The Doctor Just Gave Me To Get Rid Of The Drousyness I Guess Hopefully I'll Be Fine.]]
I don't know why we had school today it was so bad outside with the snow but I had a doctors appointment anyway really early in the morning and wit what he was checking and looking at he gave me some medicine to take starting today aswell that would make me drousy. I went to school anyway because I had a test today and I didn't want to miss anything important. Well the medicine was more dousy making then I thought. I was out of it! Well Adam [[AKA Best Friends Boyfriend... even though I like him and BFF knows I do. I liked him before she went out with him, and she kinda knew I did but not like hardcore so]] Well Adam.. told me that at the dance next friday wanted to kiss Becky. But didn't know how she would take me... That's not something I wanted to hear-- and I was probably walking like a drunk person I fell. [[Walking down Hall to lunch]] He helped me up, and then Becky came running down the hall because it was Taco Day to see us holding hands,,, VERY BREIFLY. And I pulled away and said Thank You. Well She was RAWR on me! It didn't madder that Adam grabbed my hand and was heling me up, or anything. I was slirring my words are everything , it probably looked like I was drunk and what didnt help the situation Adam --arm and arm-- brought me to the nurse. After argueing for 15 minutes was just like Fuck This grabbed my arm and began helping me up the stairs.
I don't want Becky to be mad at me but because I told her I liked Adam she now thinks Im out to get him or something...
And now Adams asked me 3 times in one hour if Im okay. He hasnt bothered to see if Becky was fine or not...
Help.
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He may not have noticed that Becky was particularly upset, or if he did, he may not have thought it was a big deal.
Explain to Becky what was going on - that you were drowsy from medication and had difficulty walking, and that Adam was really just helping you to the nurses' office. Explain that if he seemed like he was holding you too close or whatnot it was because he was worried about you falling on the floor from the way you were feeling. If he was worried, it was because, well, I'd probably be worried seeing you as you were completely out of it! Also say that you're sorry for what happened, and if it seemed like you were trying to get with her boyfriend then you apologize for that as well though you really did not mean to give that impression.
On the side note, though, about the meds, is that a lot of the time you may be feeling a certain way from them because you are anticipating some sort of reaction - it's called the placebo affect.
But anyway, I wish the best to you. Your situation doesn't seem like it is that serious, so hopefully it will blow over soon (and your friend isn't as mad as you think she was).
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This sounds like a problem that the guy needs to solve. He should explain to your bff that nothing sexual or anything like that was going on. What your bff needs to realize is that her b/f was trying to help you out. That's probably what she likes about him. She doesn't want a jerk for a b/f. Now imagine if he had just left you on the ground...she would've gotten mad at him. So this whole problem was your bff's, not yours or the guy's. You didnt do anything wrong and neither did he. She caught at a time she thought that you two were doing something...She didn't bother to ask about it.
Cliche Time: Skipping a lot of the facts can result in jumping to the wrong conclusion.
Hope that helps...
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