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The Brother


Question Posted Friday January 18 2008, 4:02 pm

(Those of you who are not familiar with everything you can read my last few questions)
Well TJ did ask me out yesterday over the phone.
(I said yes, of course!)
Well his brother Johnathan(SP?) told me at our morning recess in the gym that the reason TJ asked me out was because he called him a "wimp, chicken, (EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE BUT THIS IS EXACT QUOTE) and a pussy."
Now Johnathan lies.A lot.
So I didn't believe him, I just slapped his leg and we laughed at it.
I thouhgt ' Okay he's pulling my chain.'
But as today went on I started thinking, ' What if he's serious!?'
I got checked out and since TJ goes to a highschool and (He's a yeah older then me by the way) I'm in my final year of middle school, I only see him on the bus, usually anyway.
Well I'm gonna call later today and I have NO IDEA what to say or do! HELP!


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masterclinic answered Friday January 18 2008, 10:34 pm:
Don't let it bother you don't question him from the start that's not a good way to start a relationship. If you do it now he is gunna think that you will always question him. Time will tell if he asked you out for the wrong reason. Just to let you know his brother might like you. He probably just made it up so that you would ruin the relationship. Best of luck

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Roxy07 answered Friday January 18 2008, 5:02 pm:
Just be yourself, that's the most important thing!!! You don't want to pretend to be someone your not for someone to like you because they are so not worth it.

Even if his brother is telling the truth about your guy asking you out because he called him stupid names, if you be yourself this guy might end up really like you..... or he already does and that's why he's asked you out.

If you have nothing to talk about perhaps talk about school to start the convo off, he's in high school and your not so you could ask him what its like and the conversation might fly off from there.

Good luck...Hope I helped!

Ps.. it's probably not a good idea to let your guy know that his brother told you what he did about calling him names and stuff.

But if you feel like you need to know the truth then ask him but don't be rude about it :)

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