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I cant compete
Okay.So basically my best friend is one of the most gorgeous girls you could meet.I would like a guy and hed like me,but thatd just be until he met her.shes a major flirt and will go for it even if she knows i already like him.i know this sounds bad but it sucks i cant comete with her and i love her to death but does she have to get with everyguy i like?
idk what to do.
help ?
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Definetly talk to your friend about it. If she's flirting with a guy that you like and she knows about it, then that's not being a good friend.
Plus, even though she is gorgeous, maybe she's jealous of something you have that she doens't and flirting with guys is a way of making herself the center of attention.
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Hey,
I understand what you are going through. My friend is like that. Now my advice to you is just be yourself and don't compete with her. There is something special inside you and you should let it out, I mean yeah it does make you feel bad that she gets all the guys, but if you just be your self and don't compete the right guy will come along and he will not care what your friend is like. He will see that you are the best for him. So just be yourself because in the long run it will help you. Don't act like someone even thought the are pritty or what not. If you are acting like someone else, nonbody will know the real you. So be yourself.
-Ashley2010
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honestly, i would tell you to talk to her about the situation, but i would suggest you dont do that. it may make her feel over confident, and take ahold of the whole situation, and just do it more. If she was really your friend, she would not go and flirt with every guy you like.
Maybe you should tell her when you like a guy, then see if she still flirts with him. You dont have to invite her to hang with you and your crush all the time, im sure you have plenty of other friends, or maybe you just want to go by yourself.
If you decide to end your friendship, maybe do it in a suttle way. Dont just come out and start drama TRUST me on this one, you need to just stay nice, say hi, and be friendly, you can still act like friends, just dont go out with her or share the secrets you used to with her, and you dont have to go out with her every friday either.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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I had a friend like that and the best thing you can do is just end that friendship because eventually she will do something with the guy or there will be one guy too much and you will be at war. And guys dont always go for looks. But if you dont want to leave the friendship then just talk to her and let her know how you are feeling.
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Talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she knows you like someone, she shouldn't be with them. That's not being a good friend.
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