hi, i just turned 18 and i live a pretty fun and active life but when i get on girls and start making out with them, i start to get hard. is this normal to get hard every time i make out with a girl because i have been with multiple girls and it really has not started to change? also, when she notices, is it a turn on or is it a turn off?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? IKnowYou answered Monday January 14 2008, 12:20 am: Yea dude this is perfectly normal. I think in some situations if a girl is a young and inexperienced she might find it surprising and take it the wrong way just simply because she doesn't understand. I'm sure that if your 18 and your making out with girls around your age they won't be ignorant to something this common and it shouldn't be a turn off ever nor anything you should worry about. Most girls that find it as a "turnoff" are probably just inexperienced and uncomfortable with sexual activity so if you get the feeling they do find it as a turnoff I guarantee it will all pass when they begin to get more experience and comfortable. Hope that helped! [ IKnowYou's advice column | Ask IKnowYou A Question ]
babykiwi1 answered Sunday January 13 2008, 8:41 pm: yes its normal to get hard when making out. for some girls its a turn on but for some it might not be. i think you should try and hide it if you think she is being turned off.
duzzie19 answered Sunday January 13 2008, 1:07 pm: Wow, did I really just get a 1 for offending you? I'll be sure to be less honest next time, buddy.
I want nothing less than to offend, but I wouldn't think too many girls would be turned on by boners during make-out sessions. One the one hand, it is flattering to the lady, but on the other, if it happens all the time, it would suggest that perhaps even the smallest things could excite you...not as flattering to the lady. Maybe your mind is habitually moving to the possibility of sex. If you don't want a boner, then see the making out for what it is. xox [ duzzie19's advice column | Ask duzzie19 A Question ]
Amazing_April answered Sunday January 13 2008, 12:39 pm: It's perfectly normal for you to get a boner when you make-out. It's just your body's way of saying that you are aroused. It shoud be a turn-on for the girl, knowing that she makes you get that way. [ Amazing_April's advice column | Ask Amazing_April A Question ]
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