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No fight but angry friend
I started Middle school this fall. I made a lot of friends this year. My best friend and I are in the same lunch and she keeps giving off this vibe that she is angry with me. Z (my bff) and I haven't fought at all this year and I didn't spread any rumors or snub her or anything, but she seems mad at me. Neither of us are part of the "in" crowd, though we have friends in it. We sit at the same lunch table, but she barely speaks to me. We used to be really close. Sorry for the length, but any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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I think the next time you meet that you should ask her if anythings wrong maybe theres something going on with her family that you don't know about and she cant leave it at her house. Another possibility is that you did something wrong and didn't notice it i see it happen all the time.
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Hmm you should ask her what's up? Maybe somethings bugging her and she wants to talk about it, but she doesn't want to ask. Also, she may be feeling left out. Have you been paying attention to others more than her lately? She might just need a welcoming into any new groups of friends you've made...If she seems mad you should definetly approach her about it, nothing gets resolved if nothing is said.Right?
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That may be it. You said that you made alot of friends this year. She may feel threatened that you want to be friends with them more than her. Another reason could be that she has something serious going on in her life and it is really hard to talk about it. I would suggest writing her a note or even phone call to prove that no matter how many friends you have she will always be one of them. It is hard to see your friends to slowly become popular. A person liek that senses that the more friends you make the less you will be friends with her. She is probably easing the pain but cutting off the friendship ahead of time. A way to avoid that is to talk to her about what is going on with her. If you don't ask directly you will never find out the answer.
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If you know you didn't do anything wrong, then I wouldn't worry about it that much. Just ask her if she's mad at you or something, it can really help you out alot if you just ask, it can take the weight and the tension of your back. Just ask at least you know whether or not she's mad at you. Try asking her something like this : What's up with you, we haven't talked in awhile?, hope I helped. :)
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I think you need to tell Z how you feel and ask her if she is mad. I think any sort of relationship is built on honesty, communication, and love. So if Z is your true friend she will communicate with you and be honest in a nice way. Worst comes to worst you two do not talk.
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