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I’m very confused about this guy in my math class. I’m seriously not sure whether he likes me or hates me. My mom
He never talks to me unless I talk to him (which is not very often) and whenever I do talk to him, he never looks at me. I sit next to him in math class, and whenever I’m around him, there is always some kind of awkward tension. Generally, though, he seems to avoid me like the plague. But today, when it was time to start doing classwork, I got out my notebook from my backpack, and he tore me out a sheet of binder paper without me asking him.
Oddly, he’s usually very friendly and open around other kids, except for me. My mom told me that when guys like girls, sometimes they behave the exact opposite. Is this true? Does it sound like this is the case in this situation?
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You first need to be sure that you aren't reading the signs wrong. Ask him first what his feelings are for her and i imagine that he'll be a little confused about why you're asking him, just say that you wanted to make sure.
Next, what do you feel towards him? This is important because if this is going to turn into a realtionship, you don't want him to feel in anyway hopeful if you don't know what your feelings are for him. It's only fair.
Think about it for a while and see what you feel.
Hope this helps,
triquetra
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Your mum does have a point. But you must understand that for a given reaction, there can be many possibilties for giving the reaction he gives to you. What your mum pointed out is just one of the possibilities.
I suggest you interact with him more before jumping to conclusions because right now, there's too little info for us to conclude whether or not he likes you. It is also better that you don't straight away jump to thinking bout whether he likes you right now, because you both hardly know each other, and what's more, thinking that he likes you will get your hopes higher.
Talk to him more, then see how it goes.
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yeah he definitely likes you, guys are nearly always shy around girls they like.
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