some girl keeps calling my boyfriends phone and he keeps lying to me about it. I think hes cheating on me how do i know? What should i do im so hurt.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? icey0990 answered Saturday January 5 2008, 2:19 am: Is he showing signs of cheating? Making excuses for not hanging out? Things like that? Well anyway, the problem is him lying to you about the phone calls. Do you know who this girl is? If so, find a way to talk to her..IM,in person,etc. and ask for the honest truth about what is going on. Confront him and tell him you KNOW hes lying. I agree with everyone else that you shouldnt be with a liar. Tell him you dont want to be with a liar and you want him to tell the truth and explain. Hopefully things work out, but dont put up with lying and things going on behind your back. Trust me, it accumulates and if he knows you know things are going on behind your back and you dont do anything about it, he will continue it and you will get caught in a mess. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Saturday January 5 2008, 12:17 am: Well, I don't know how you would know if he is cheating on you.
I do know that if he is lying to you about a girl calling him, he can't be trusted.
Why are you still with him? You are hurt enough. To stay with the lying, untrustworthy jerk is only leaving yourself open to more pain.
Volleyball2150 answered Friday January 4 2008, 6:52 pm: Wow that must be hard on you. Talking to him would be the best answer. Look into his eyes and you can tell by his body language if he is lying. (if he is fidgiting or sweating...) Or you can ask him to see his phone. Whatever you do, DO NOT take his phone without his permission and check it out because from what i've learned, they won't trust you after that. Just calmly ask to see his phone and if he asks why just say you need to look at something. But do not say you want to look at his pictures or something and then when he's not looking you look at his calls. there is a 50% chance that he will catch you and he won't trust you again.
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