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not over him
i just broke up with my cheating ex...now he is with the girl he was cheating on me with. she is great. and he loves her... he used to love me but treats her better. i want to find a guy that will care about me... but i just dont know how to make myself feel better. i am so different now.. and i really miss him. how do i get over him and find someone new.. please help
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first off..he cheated, which is terrible. remind yourself you dont desserve that and you will find your dream guy down the road who will never ever hurt you like that. be happy you are away from him, because once a cheater,, always a cheater. let him go with her, i bet he will cheat on her too!
some things to feel better:
-go out and treat yourself. get a new haircut,go shopping with friends,etc.
-i dont know how old you are, but if you are old enough, hit up the clubs with your friends! go dancing, get guys to dance with you, buy you drinks, or even go to a male strip club hehe.
- getting a rebound wont help anything. i have been through that..i liked him, but not a deep like.., it made me miss my ex more, and i wound up hurting the poor guy.
instead, just go out and have some fun. hang out with yyour girlfriends, hit up the parties, meet new people, and always remember you desserve a greay guy! it might take a little bit to find him..in the mean time go out on dates,meet new people, and dont get down over a scumbag cheater hun!
stay strong
-melissa-
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A lot of folks believe it is best to move on with another guy. I don't. Why? I just don't find it fair to subject some poor fella to being a rebound relationship.
I personally believe it's best to pick up your pieces and glue them back together first.
Something to make you feel better? He cheated on you with her, he will likely cheat on her. Therefore, they really deserve each other.
Something else? He's already done his damage. He can't break your heart anymore.
ygs-29/f
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