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my best friend hates me
i am so depressed right now. my best friend and i got into a HUGE fight that we both kind of started and it's making me so confused. after getting out what we both needed to say, i had this really long heartfelt apology because i hated the fight and knew that someone had to step up and be the better woman. then she said that saying sorry wasn't good enough, even though it wasn't just any apology! i really meant what i said and she threw it back like it was worthless. i understand that saying sorry doesn't magically make everything all right, but what else could i do? she really seems on the verge of leaving behind the whole friendship, but i'm not ready for that and i want to fight for it. i'm so sad because i feel like there's nothing else i can do. i'm reeaally really depressed but she doesn't care. what else can i do? please im desperate..
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Eh, well, what exactly was the fight about?
Sometimes people just don`t accept apologies as quickly as others. Other people could`ve hurt them in their life that simply made it difficult to trust people & if you broke that trust, then she probably has no clue what to do. I`d say just give her time if she`s the person that can`t handle being pushed into doing something that she doesn`t want, cause sometimes ... that can just make it easier for something like this to happen again.
Try EVERYTHING. Call her, text her, leave her a long msg apologizing. Write her a letter -- the length really matters cause it shows how much you care & how much effort you actually put into it. Buy her a nice gift. Make her a CD of songs about friendship, apologies, etc .. then attach a note or somehow record you saying, "I`m sorry." Send her a long e-mail about all the good times -- first paragraph, then say you know whatever you did was wrong -- second paragraph, then apologize -- third paragraph, & make the title like "PLEASE DON`T DELETE!"
Good luck!
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well this happend to me also so what i did was i went to her door singing a thousand miles by vannessa carlton and we huged and made up but if your not a good singer you could make some cookies and brownies and muffins put them in a basket and put a sing in it saying how sorry you are and then go to her door with the basket saying how sorry you are i really hope i helped good luck and i hope you get your friend back
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Give her some time. If y'all were really really good friends, there is no way she can just leave you like that. I am in the same situation right now, my best friend of 8 years hasn't talked to me in like a month and it really really sucks because i feel like she doesn't even care about me. she has new friends and everything. That is all you can do. Go out and make some new friends, and enjoy your life while you have it. There is no reason to live in depression because of one person. If you have other friends, hang with them for a while. I assure you, your friend will eventually call you and say sorry.
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this has happened to me before and i know it sucks. it may take time for her hurt feelings to heal. just keep being nice to her, she will bounce back. if she doesn't want to be your friend anymore though, just keep being nice and make a new friend. you can't make a person forgive you, but you can try
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