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Should I add?
I was at a party last night....
There was this kid there that I didnt actually talk to but I was talking to his friend. The reason I didnt talk to him because I guess I was shy or whatever, I dont know but man I dont know If I should add him on myspace or not. Because the thing is, I havent ever spoken to him before... and maybe he'll think like "who is this girl?" but then again... what's the wrong thing that could happen, right? I keep trying to tell myself that but I can't seem to get the courage to do so. He goes to my school and he's older and stuff, and I definately don't talk to him there because one, I barely see him and two, Im shy :/
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i say you add him, i mean what's the harm in doing it?
even if he doesn't know who you are and messages you asking who you are or something, just say who you are and you guys could maybe even start talking more and more and become closer.
hope i helped:)
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MESSAGE HIM AND SAY HEY!
I understand you're shy, but hey, WHY NOT?!
GOOD THINGS HAPPEN WHEN YOU TAKE CHANCES:)
I would know personally, because this is exactly how me and my boyfriend of 3 months got together.
-Sarah
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I am so happy he accepted! OK, now just message him. Like i said before, make small talk, hopefully if he is interested he will be talkative too and maybe after a couple messages back and forth talking about the party, or a funny story from that night, you can ask him to hang out , go to a school game together, etc. like i said earlier, go ahead and flirt! comment his pics, be talkative, ask questions, be yourself! and if he isnt interested , then let it go but you have nothing to lose!
you should definitely add thhis guy! you have nothing to lose at all. you can add him along with sending him a message saying hey whats up i think i saw you at that party. and get some small talk convo going on and eventually you two might hang out and who knwos there can be something there! i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and for 6 months we were just random friends on myspace who didnt talkk until we started talking and decided to hang out! :) so you just never know..
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Just do it. and afterwards start a conversation saying you saw him at the party and asked if he had a good time. The worst thing is he won't accept your request.. and if so, who cares, right? No biggy.
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talk to him, make random conversation with him, just get him to talk to ya, make small talk, ask about music, find a common interest or something
you should add him, ad get to knw him cuz its easier to get to know ppl on myspace since you dont have to deal with the akward silence. hope this helps <3
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Just add him. It doesn't necessarily mean that a relationship will suddenly blossom.
Casually say 'hey whats up'.
Nothing's going to happen, just trust me. :)
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