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little sister .
ok boy boyfriend has a little sister , shes 6 ;
ok just now shes starting to sleep in her rom which is across from her brother [ boyfriend ] & she usualy sleeps with her mom and dad . But now sence she " says " she sleeps in her bed , she always gos to justins room and he lets her , he lets her stay up late and he holds her and everything . But i dont think he should keep doing it because he's going to mess her sleeping up for school and everything & he shouldnt baby her like he does because she's going to get use to it & how is she going to learn to sleep in her 0WN bed if she always crys and sleeps with justin ?
am i right or am i wrong ? beacuse he gets mad when i say he shouldnt do that .
thanks <3
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Unlike an attachement to parents, a brothers and sisters inevitably separate, especially if she is 6 and he is dating age. Hes going to move out someday, and shes going to have to learn to live at home and sleep alone without him. For now, its harmless.
Leave it be. Let them bond, it will make them closer as time passes.
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I don't believe it is your place to put a brother and sister bonding to a hault. She's so young and she will at one point grow out of it. She finds comfort from her brother, so don't insist that it be taken away from her. Just cope with the situation instead of trying to get your point across. I'm sorry if this seems harsh, just look at it from her perspective.
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I think the other person has a point, but i think you are right because at the end of the day, she can't always just cuddle into Justin, she has t learn how to sleep in her own bed. I'd probably get an adult involved.... unless you are one.. :S
But i hope it goes alright for you. x
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It kind of depends on how well you know him. If you two are older and are close to each other's families, then it would be okay to either gently talk to him and maybe to get him to talk to her and start "cuddling" a little earlier so that she has time to go back to bed in her own room. Or, if you personally know his sister, then you could talk to her yourself and/or lay with her in her room, tell her a story, or whatever to make her feel safe. ON the other hand, if you do not know the family well, then it really isn't a place for you to step in. Either way, she will mostly likely grow out of it. Hope I helped!
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