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big deal?
i received a call yesterday from this girl that i didnt know.She was trying to get my ex bf's number.I found out that i knew her bf but she wanted to know if i knew anybody that would know my ex's number.I told her that i dont give out my friends number to people i dont know.Then she asked me if i couldd ask her bf if he was planning on breaking up with her.At first i sad no because im not about to get into somebody else's relationship but then i made a deal with her.She wouldnt give out the name of the girl who gave her my number so i made a deal with her so that she would.i told her i would ask her bf if she told me who gave her my number because i really dont appreiate somebody going around giving out my number.well it ended up being a friend of mine that wasnt that close but was really a sweet girl.the girl begged me not to tell her she told me.My question is should i confront that girl for giving out my number because that really does piss me off.Also i still dont plan on asking her bf the questions she wanted me to but should i?I try my hardest to stay out of any kind of drama but is that a way that would put me into any kind of unwanted drama.I think it might be but i would like others opinions.thanx!!!
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To elaborate more on Volley's response, if she asks why you didn't ask more, tell her you were only to ask if he was planning on breaking up with her, that was the deal that you two had made, and you didn't have to pursue it any further. I would also tell her, next time, she needs to deal with her own relationship woes, on her own. You don't like being involved with other peoples' business.
For the girl that gave your number out, I would tell her that you don't appreciate it that she gave your number, next time could she give you a call and ask for permission first.
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I think you should confront the girl who gave out your number. Don't make it a big deal as it already is. Just say- Did you by any chance give out my number to someone? Then ask why and If she could stop. don't yell, but just calmly tell her that you don't want it to happen again.
As for the bf questions- you can ask him, but don't get too involved. Maybe like 1 or 2 questions and If the girl says why didn't you ask more, just be like "oh I had to go run errands. Or he was in a rush."
I hope I helped!
-volleyball2150
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