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Question Posted Friday December 28 2007, 10:28 pm

So i had a xanga that was like my personal online journal.
i wasnt connected to anyone i knew through blogrings or comments. this site was strictly for me, and so i thought it would stay that way. I wrote my deepest thoughts on there, but then yesterday, this girl from my school that is really stuck up commented it and it said "whats up?' but i NEVER TALK TO HER. i didnt even think she knew me. So im thinking she read my blogs about who i like and stuff, and just commented to basicly tell me she saw them.... what should i do? she will probably tell the whole school.

ps.
i have already deleted the account


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cookie8888 answered Monday December 31 2007, 4:12 pm:
Chalk it up to experience.

I am the network administrator where I work. I monitor all the emails and internet usage where I work. It amazes me that people think that their email, internet usage and blogs are private. The internet is PUBLIC. Once you publish something to your blog, it's out there for everyone to see. Emails can be intercepted. Your browser history can be retrieved and reviewed. By anyone who has the right program.

OK, so you put something on your blog that maybe you shouldn't have. There's nothing you can do about it once other people have read it. Move on. People WILL eventually forget about it, and it will blow over, Keep your private thoughts PRIVATE, and don't write anything in an email or blog that you wouldn't want your mother to read.

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orphans answered Saturday December 29 2007, 10:22 pm:
well if she does tell the school then who cares the teasing isnt going to last long at all and she is problay nice enuf to keep your secrets sorry i couldnt help more good luck and dont worry about it anymore

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khadiya answered Saturday December 29 2007, 6:10 am:
She coulda just been saying hey. See if she talks to you again. Its really nothing she can do because If she knows, then she knows. But she doesnt have any proof so dont worry about it. If she does tell anyone anything, dont deny it, but dont agree to it either. Denying it would just add more fuel to the fire. And agreeing will tell all your secrets!


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Dont acknowlegde it. If someone says I heard you had a crush on so and so you be like really?? Thats crazy. or I hear the Same thing. Or just laugh it off.

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