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any guys wanna answer?
I don't have big boobs, I'm kinda/pretty much flat chested, and I don't have like the biggest butt, and I haven't had a bf yet because they all want girls with big boobs and who "put out" I'm not like that. So would a guy go out with me??
If any guys, even girls could make me feel better (I don't want sugar coating kthanks) and if you're going to tell me that there is someone out there for me and I'll find him one day, don't bother.
--thanks in advance :\
*if it helps, 15/f*
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most guys look for that.
but believe it or not i know alot of guys who dont go for boobs and buts.
it would help to know how old you are though.
maybe your not all the way matured.
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all guys arent like that. i agree with you though most guys go for the whores that have big boobs. its because theyre easy. if its right in front of them and they dont have to work for it guys are just like 'okay sweeet'. eventually they will get tired of it and realize that sometimes the chase is the best part of getting a girl. some guys are also able to see past what a girl looks like and like her for her personality. you will find a guy someday. i had a few boyfriends in 8th grade and i was like completely flat then, even though most girls werent. i wouldnt worry about it too much. if it really bothers you trying wearing a push up bra or a padded bra. it will make your boobs look bigger and make you a little more confident.
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all guys aren't like that. there are some good guys out there who don't just want girls with big boobs or who put themselves out. and about the "don't tell you there is someone out there" you should really change that attitude because there is someone out there. believe me, maybe you just need to take a closer look.
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honestly, even though bodies are important to guys, faces are muucchhh more important. also, personalities. it may not seem like it, but there are a lot of hot girls in our school but they act wierd and hyper so no guys go for them. guys like girls with nice faces and good personalities. hvaing a nice body is always just a bonus, and it can never hurt. so if you dont have that great of a body, just make sure you have an appealing personality and make your face look pretty =]
im not sugarcoating, becuase yeaaahh guys want a girl with a good body, but they cant simply base it on only that. so you asked if a guy would go out with youu. now i dont know if guys would consider you annoying or whatnot, but just be flirtacious and nice and funny and cute. hope that makes you feel better =]
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Guys your age want girls with big boobs and what not because...they're young and horny. They just want action. Would you seriously have a crush on someone because of their slut level, I mean, come ON! Honestly, look at models these days, a lot of the gorgeous ones are like, A cups, and are still considered gorgeous. If you make your hair look great and wear clothes that compliment your shape, the guys will come, I promise. I have a best friend, and she's like, a small B-cup, and she's considered hot even though she's got not much of a butt and not much of boobs. She's had a boyfriend for 4+ months now, and it's because of the way she'd present herself as a non-slut. She could even pass as a model. If you can present yourself so guys see you as gorgeous, but not because of chest and butt, they're going to realize that they're gonna get bored of just having big chested, I'm a slut girlfriends. If you look at Victoria's Secret models, they may appear to have amazing bodies, looks, and boobs, but it's really just the magic of push-up bras and thongs. My other friend, she is TOTALLY flat chested, no but whatsoever. Nothing. But she's got gorgeous green eyes that she matches with clothes so they're brought out more, and she's had plenty of boyfriends..and she isn't even an A-cup. One of my guy friends once said, "I'd rather have a gorgeous, non-slutty girlfriend with a small chest, than a big chested slut who puts on too much makeup." I'm not trying to sugarcoat you here, but I wanna tell you that guys WILL come, but you just need to know the right look to bring out your best features.
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