hello there, my name is Iraa. i'm a very nice person. i'm 14 years old. i have a boyfriend, and he means the world to me. i like to help people. i try the best i can. i don't spend my time trying to impress people, if you don't like me it is your loss. music is an amazing thing. i straighten my hair a lot. i'm always smiling or laughing. my friends are important to me, i don't have many but the ones i do have are great. i'm up for meeting new people :)
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Age: 14
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what are some different songs
that are like emo, screamo, or techno?
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for a mixture of screamo & techno/electronica listen to breathe carolina.
listen to family force 5 for the techno/electronica itself. and maybe mindless self indulgence?
for emo= bullet for my valentine, audomatic loveletter, my last mistake.
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My friend just came out to me that she's bi and that she like likes me... I like her too, like that but both of us are still really confused and need advice. Thanks to you all in advance! (link)
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if you are still confused then you should really take time and think about it. make sure you really think about it, i can't advise it enough. do what your heart says. i was in a situation like this once before, and it turned out after i thought about it that i didn't like her like that. and it ruined our friendship =/ so be careful.
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i'm looking for songs that are sad, about losing someone (a death), or about breaking up with someone, missing the relationship you had with someone, saying sorry, etc. slow songs would be best, preferably alternative music. thank you. (link)
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everchanging by rise against.
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My friend, Jayelle (16) is very into drugs and although I have been friends with her for three years, I'm way different than her. I'm not into that and no one can influence me to do so. However, she's ruining her life and she doesn't care and slowly she's trying to drag me with her.
Her parents don't know that she uses drugs and I don't see how. She's always high and she has drugs in her room. They're clueless. I don't feel comftrable being around her anymore and I have talked to her about it but it goes in one ear and out the other so I stoped trying.
She got upset with me because I did not want to hang out with her because of it and I honestly did not feel guilty for it.
Here's the problem. Both Jayelle & I got invited to a college party but I would not go because they're crazy and I did not want anything bad to happen but she still decided to go. She called me at 2 in the morning asking me to come pick her up. I'm also 16 and I don't have a car of my own so there was no way I could leave. I felt really bad because I knew she was in deep trouble. High, drunk and with a bunch of older guys. I freaked out so I called her older sister who is 18. She acted calm and went and picked her up. I got a phone call from Jayelle the next day cursing me out and blaming me for getting grounded. I felt really bad but I honestly don't feel like it's my fault.
Even though I don't want to be friends with her because of the things she does, I still don't want anything bad to happen to her. Her mother found her drugs and basically cursed me out for it because I didn't go with her to the party and "protect" her. I was shocked.. hearing that from an adult! My mom took my side and is proud of me for not following into her footsteps but there is a part of me that feels horrible. What do I do. Thank you so much!! (link)
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maybe you should give a little time to settle down. then maybe call her up or ask her to meet you somewhere and tell her why you did what you did and why you feel bad. talking to her is the only way you could resolve things, if that is what you are looking to do.
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15, female.
I lost my first true love, Jordan over stupid lies Casey told me. I lost my very best friend of 6 years, Casey. She's a victim drinking, casual sex, and weed. My mom has breast cancer. My brother is moving across the country. After three months apart, Jordan and I started hooking up again just because were both still in love but everyone is against us dating again. My mom caught us while he was fingering me and I was giving him a handjob; there goes that trust.
Life is slowly falling apart. I only have two other friends. I've been told I'm attractive, so its not that I'm hideous to talk to. I'm outgoing, always honest, and I'm fair to others. Still, people always assume I come off as a bitch and don't bother to get to know me. I need more friends, I need people to help me get through. Help. (link)
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it is hard to make new friends. but honestly, it can be accomplished. talk to people, even if they look at you funny and stuff, kill them with kindness. one day they will see that you are nice. smile, have positive body language.
i'm kind of confused about the jordan thing though? do you date again or not?
if you want to, you can IM me, to talk about it.
hope i helped, even if it was just a bit.
-Iraa
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I don't have big boobs, I'm kinda/pretty much flat chested, and I don't have like the biggest butt, and I haven't had a bf yet because they all want girls with big boobs and who "put out" I'm not like that. So would a guy go out with me??
If any guys, even girls could make me feel better (I don't want sugar coating kthanks) and if you're going to tell me that there is someone out there for me and I'll find him one day, don't bother.
--thanks in advance :\
*if it helps, 15/f* (link)
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all guys aren't like that. there are some good guys out there who don't just want girls with big boobs or who put themselves out. and about the "don't tell you there is someone out there" you should really change that attitude because there is someone out there. believe me, maybe you just need to take a closer look.
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Last night my boyfriend drove me home, before I left we started making out and then he stopped and said he thought we needed to be more open about "this" and so I asked him what he meant and he just said nevermind. I can't help but wonder what he was talking about. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
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maybe he meant you should talk about your limits? as in, how far you would take the physical contact? you should really talk to him about it though, find out what he meant. i don't really know any good ideas but i'm sure on one thing and that is you need to talk to him about this.
hope this helped, even just a little :)
-Iraa
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