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My name is Kelly. I'm 15 years old and in the 10th grade. I may be young but I love to help people. I have been threw a lot and can relate to just about anyone. I will try my best to help all of you or well anyone that asks me. If I don't know the answer I will get the answer for you. I will never judge you or turn away any question. So I just wanted to let everyone know to feel free to ask me anything they want at anytime. I'm always on my messangers so also feel free to email or IM me. Thanks xD
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Does anyone know when the new episode is. I don't have cable anymore. But I'm going to watch it online. Thanks In Advance!! (link)
I think it's January 8th or something. I know it's not on again until 2008 but I guess you will have to keep checking back to their website which is www.the-n.com/degrassi


ok so im 14/f and still TERRIFIED of the dark. every night when i go to sleep i imagine murderers breaking in and killing me. I don't watch scary movies anymore, just a few here and there. the old ones still come back to haunt me, i'll remember any scary thought when it's nighttime. the fact that my house is PITCH BLACK at night doesn't help at all either. i really really desperately need help, i'm scared to go to bed at night. i can't even get up to go pee because im scared the killer with "hear me". i want to use a nightlight, but i don't want my parents to think i'm a wuss, i mean i'm 14!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me find a way to be comfortable in my own house at night. (link)
I know how you feel. I'm 15 years old and to this day I still can't sleep in the dark. I normally keep my door open so the kitchen light will come threw or I turn on my nightlight (yes I have a nightlight lol). You shouldn't be ashamed to get one. There are grown adults out there that are afraid of the dark and have nightlights. but if you really don't want one, just keep in mind that whatever is there during the day is there during the night. Nothing changes. If that all fails you can always ask your parents for help on coping with it. I'm sure they won't judge you for being afraid. Everyone has their fears. Hope I helped :)


I have nightlife so I had my sim, Lilith (the redhead "goth" twin from Pleasantview) go out with that guy.. I forget his name but he's the black sim with glasses' son. anyways so on their date, downtown at FM, I decide to use boolProp so I can control Lilith's date as well to make their date like.. good. ok first of all it seems he knows lilith a LOT more than she knows him. like for him he sees her as like a lot higher relationship level and for lilith to him, he is 0 shorttime, and 0 long time. weird. even weirder was when lilith wanted to entertain her date, and they were already dining so i made her do a toast to him.. it was weird.. all of a sudden this error kept popping up. are teens not able to toast each other since its champagne? so i kept pressing cancel and then finally i didnt know what it meant so i pressed delete and it ended up deleting lilith! and weirdly her date was still on when i clicked the boy.. but the girl, nowhere to be found, i couldnt even click her cuz her head wasnt on like the sidebar thing. obviously i didnt save.. but what can i do to make sure this doesnt happen again? i dont even use custom like.. designs off the internet. and the most cheats i use are maxmotives, aspirationlevel _, motherlode, moveObjects(not very often), and occasionally boolProp when i wanna change aspirations, make people selectable, etc. like once this other time, at the Goth household (btw Mortimer married Dina and lives at her house) i made cassandra go on a date with the black sim with glasses, and.. after getting in the cab, it never disapeared into the downtown.. like i didnt come with her, and i was stuck at the house. thank god i called a nanny.. but then cassie dissapeared from the side bar thing.. like i made cassie's brother.. i forget his name, like try to be friends with one of the townie kids. so i made the girl selectable and they became friends then i unselected her and she went home cuz it was like 10pm. obv i didnt save again and cassie came back. so what the heck is up with this? thanks for da help btw :) (link)
Yeah I own a lot of sims 2 games also. almost every one except cast away (which I got for the wii lol) but anyway yeah you deleted lilith I've done it plenty of times before. Using boolProp actually messes up your game. I used it once and everytime my sims were going to move a skeleten showed up. Adventually I got it to stop but about why the relationship bar wouldn't go up is probably because she doesn't feel an attraction for him. I always try to get my sims to go with the people I want them to go with but it doesn't really work out. Hope I helped.


So I just got the Sims 2 Nightlife and I saw on sims2.com that you can have all these new hair styles and clothes when you got the Nightlife expansion pack... Well I loaded it on my computer and I only have like two new hair styles for male and female.. and I have hardly any new clothes. What's the deal?
Thanks! :) (link)
I have all of the sims 2 games including sims 2 nightlife and depending on if you have for the pc or ps2 determines if you get new stuff or not. I didn't get all that much for nightlife because they added all the cars and everything but on sims2.com you can download new hair styles, clothing, furniture, houses ect. but you have to have a thing that unzips zipped files so its hard to download things. Also it slows down your game. But on nightlife, you might have to look in the section with the star thingy on it. Hope I helped :)


I always like to act and dress up like a little kid sometimes (I'm 16!) and sometimes I have this urge to scream or shout I HAVE DOWN SYNDROME =] when I'm outside.

But i was just wondering if it will be offensive? Because I think down syndrom is a mental disability( or correct me if I'm wrong) so it will be offensive to many people? (link)
Down syndrome causes families a lot of pain so it may offend a lot of people. It may even offend people who don't have down syndrom or know people with down syndrom just because you are claiming to have a serious mental illness when you don't. Just be careful who you say it to or who you say it around.


My parents are forcing me to write a letter to one of my cousins that I never met that's about 18 and I'm fine with it but there's nothing to write.

Any ideas or what you would write? (link)
Well you could ask talk about what he has been doing with his life and how things are going for him/her. You could also talk about what their hobbies are or tell him/her about the things you enjoy doing. I'm sure once you break the ice, it will be a life long relationship. Hope I helped xD


What happens before a guy sticks it in??..do they get hard or are they still "soft"? and i have gotten fingered b4 (2fingers) and does it really feel like that?...and will i bleed badly? (link)
Well before you guys have sex, more than likely he will be hard because of all the excitment. He may leak seamen also due to the excitment. Nothing he can really control. Fingering if different from sex. Fingering might feel less painful than sex when other times it may feel the same. I've had sex and it didn't feel anything like being fingered. It hurt more. Also some women may bleed while others don't. I didn't bleed my first time but there are some who will. Hope I helped xD


what does it mean? how do you do it/ how do you know if its already been done? is it a good thing? does it happen to everyone? (link)
"popping the cherry" is another way of saying breaking the hymen. a Hymen is a peice of skin that stretches over the inside of the vagina. You don't have to have sex for it to break. you could ride a bike or go horse back riding. It happens to every woman that has sex or is active. To know if its broken...well its hard to know. Some women bleed while others nothing happens. But I assure you that it is normal and nothing to be scared about.




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