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I don't know what to say to him!
((F/14/8th grade))srry if this is long!
ok, there's this guy I've liked since my last days of being a 7th grader.Ever since school started and around September I've realized he's been looking/staring at me for long time now.I'm now finally convinced he likes me.^^
But I can never figure out what to talk about with him and I've noticed that I get really nervous when trying to think of a topic to talk about than what I do talking to people who I hardly know in school.We talk very little since he's the one who just says things out randomly and thats when we do a small talk about the subject and poof...nothing else to talk about...
I sit next to him in my 2nd per. class and I'm always thinking of what to talk about cause i know most of the things I need to know about him((And no,I'm not a stalker he says things out randomly to our 1st per. teacher or a friend of ours about his bros,his skateboard,his fav music))
So, I can never think of a good topic to talk about and it's worse in 2nd per, cause there are 2 girls in that class that get me jealous cause they are either trying to flirt with him just for fun or put thier hands on him,which disgusts me cause they do that all the time to every guy in the class.But thankfully he insults them all the time.
Anyways it's hard to talk to him in 1st cause I'm somewhat far from him and he is always talking to his friend and I dont want to intrude them,2nd per. cause of those girls and my heart starts beating non-stop and since it's math we ((or mostly me)) i dont want to get in trouble while the teacher is explaning to us.
so...any advice on how to talk to him???
Sorry if this was sooo long!I apologize really!
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aw. well i think you should go up to him and just be like wow this class is so boring. Then just be like i can't wait for the weekend it should be fun. He will probably ask what your doing and then you can say im going out with some of my friends at... (somewhere) movies. Then you can just be like you should come along. Or ask him for his screen name if you both have aim. If he likes you like you think he does then he would love to come along.
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Treat talking to him like you would anybody else. The only difference is you might get a date out of the conversation. When you talk to him ask him about his hobbies, sports, favorite movies, school, family etc. etc. and he will give you more than enough to go on.
You should invite him to hang out with you and your friends at the movies, bowling etc. Also, you can throw a party and invite him.
If I were you I would walk up to him and say "I'm (your name here)I was hoping you could use an extra friend to hang out with." Slip him a note with your number and e-mail info and see what happens.
If he doesn't respond or call you'll know he's not in to you. If you want something you should go after it.
He obviously likes you from what you've said so make an effort to just talk to him and include him like you would any other friend.
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