Question Posted Wednesday December 26 2007, 8:25 pm
i'm a junior and im already soooo nervous about college! not applying and getting in, but im nervous about like living there and all the new people. i have really close friends, but im not a partier and i actually like living in my house with my family. im not allowed to live at home, but im so scared and its still like 2 years away! calm my nerves!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? SWEETXLOVE answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 3:13 pm: im a senior and trust me im very nervous too but im just tryin to have fun right now and enjoy my senior year and you should try and enjoy high school while your in it! all of my friends that went off to college absolutely LOVE it and they say its way better than high school. i know im gonna miss my friends and family but i know that it will be a great experience but you dont have anything to worry about NOW since your only a junior. live you life; have fun while your still in high school instead or worrying about something 2 years away. you'll be fine ♥ [ SWEETXLOVE's advice column | Ask SWEETXLOVE A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday December 27 2007, 2:50 pm: You have nothin to be nervous about. I go to a local college for right now, but most of my good friends went away to college. Trust me, all of them were nervous to leave and was nervous about making friends..but tey are all back for break and they love collegge! they all made friends but at te same time we are all still close and when they come home for weekends we hang out, and we make trips to their colleges for the weekend. you dont HAVE to party at college..and im sure if you are only a couple hours away you can come home a couple weekends a month . dont worry about it right now, just enjoy high school because it will go by so quick! concentrate on having fun, and getting good grades to get into college :) [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
Razhie answered Thursday December 27 2007, 2:15 pm: If it's two years away, you really need to relax. Right now you should be very nervous about 'going to college'. You aren't ready to go yet! You have two years to grow and mature and learn to cope. If the idea didn't scare you a bit right now I'd worry about your mental health.
A lot will happen in the next two years to build your confidence. Let it happen. Don't undermine yourself by worrying about things that are years away.
You are who you are. I too, was not allowed to live at home when I went away to school. Also, not much a partier, but I still found fun things to do and good friends at school. Most colleges are signifigantly larger then highschools. There are a lot of people, who will all be in the same situation as you: Looking for new friends.
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