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Bachelor party.
20/f
My fiance and I are getting married. He wants a bachelor party though. Before I say yes, what exactly goes on in a bachelor party. I know girls come to their house/where ever or they go to a strip club with their guys, but do they happen to have sex with the strip girls? I don't feel comfortable if that happens obviously. So could you please tell me what all happens at those parties. Thank you!
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When it comes to a strip club there are strict rules about what a customer can and cannot do when it comes to lap dances.
If the guy violates the rules about touching or makes the stripper uncomfortable he's tossed out by the bouncer or if it's considered assualt the police are involved.
There's no opportunity at all for sexual touching or sexual acts at a strip club unless the place is a front for something. Don't worry there.
There's a strict code between the dancers, the management, the bouncers and the customers about people's behavior.
Most women who strip for private parties also have the same rules as the club would and usually show up in pairs to make sure they are safe and will walk out if they sense their clients are going to be a problem.
I'm not saying that sex doesn't happen at a private party but the odds are extremely minute as the stripper always needs to stay safe as they're taking a risk by being there.
These rules are also posted inside the club and it's usually a zero tolerance policy at that. if anyone approached a male client and offered something it means to get out of there as something isn't right. This doesn't happen hardly if ever.
The only person you have to worry about is your husband. Everything will be okay as other guys are there too. They'll know exactly what he is doing all night.
I would for your piece of mind send a female friend along with the guys to the party if you are uncomfortable with it and tell your husband that's just the way it is. However, if you let him go alone you can rest assured all's fine.
Your problem isn't with strippers here it's with your trust of him in general.
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well my dad got married to my step mom and he said that no sex gos on thats just my dads but i dont know if that is every body but if you guys are getting married and love eachother then im pretty sure he wouldent give away his most precios gift to some one other than his wife so good luck and have a very merry christmas with your new husband
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It depends on the man and the strippers, and if it is in a strip club it depends on the laws in that area and the policies of the club. I've never seen strippers kiss a guy except maybe on the cheek, usually just lap dances. The parties I've been to were innocent, but this cannot be guaranteed. At the very most he might get to grab their butt and chest, but usually this isn't allowed. If your future husband is a faithful and honorable man, you have nothing to worry about because he won't do anything he shouldn't do. Plus, if he was going to have sex it is less likely that he'd do it at the bachelor party because there would be a lot of witnesses, even if everyone is supposed to keep quiet. If your hubby decides to cheat, then it's likely that he's done it before. A cheater is a cheater. If you trusted him while he was away before (business trips, etc.) then you can trust him now. One night isn't going to change his love for you. Don't stress! Have fun at your bachelorette party too!
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