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Everything is disappearing
So, i broke up with jay a while ago...and he got really upset about it. the night before i dumped him, we got into an argument because he was ignoring me, and thats not cool. so eventually the conflict ended, but he was still texting me because he "wanted" to. but i was still really pissed off. he asked why, and i said "why do you care?" and he sends me a text saying "oh, come on dont be like that" and i said "like what?" and he says "im not even gonna say it." and i said "like a jerk?" and he says "maybe" and i dont remember what i say, but he sends me a text saying that he was kidding and i send one back saying "no your not" and he quit texting me after that. now, i know that that was completely my fault. i get really irate sometimes, and i probably would have strangled him if he was in front of me. but then the next day i send him a text saying "i think we should take a break until we know eachother a little better"...i know that isnt the best way to end a relationship, but i had no other choice. he was in school. (im homeschooled, hes not) anyways, he replies saying "yea" but i could tell he didnt agree. so hes been ignoring me since and he wont talk to me for more than 2 minutes. and then i yelled at him the other day because one of my really good guy-friends who goes to jay's school told me that jay had called me a "dirty whore" and so i confront him about it, and he denies it. and then he gets mad at me AGAIN. and so now im totally lost. i would ask my best friend for help, but i dont have one anymore. what should i do??
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Well, I think you should move on.
Why would you want to worry yourself over trying to confront him any longer?
Obviously he isn't mature enough to handle a relationship when problems arise. Instead he ignores you and calls you nasty names behind your back, then lies to you about it. (I would trust that he is lying when he denies it, because why would a good friend lie about it?)
Go on with your life. You'll be better off.
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You're right, he probably didnt want to break up so that is why he might have called you that name. You shouldnt go back to him if you arent ready, if you really feel you want to be apart from him, stay broken up and try to mend things so you two get along better. It wont be easy, it will be awkward at first, but hopefully it will get better.
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