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I'm Moving away from my California to some unknown place
I'm moving to Georgia and i really don't want to go. I do anything to stay in my hometown where everything was brighting up in my miserable life. And i belive i'm finally with 'the One' i can't just leave! what should i do??? I'm about to be torn between the west coast and the east coast!!!
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just try georgia out. a lot of teens think that moving is gonna ruin their life and that they cant live without their current friends and love life. but if you think about it in an optimistic way,you'll realize that there are new and better things in a new place. you can start over, erase the mistakes you've made in the past, and make new friends. as for your bf/gf, you could always go with the online dating/phone calling/visiting each other occasionally in the holidays trick. now that doesnt always work out but its a start. good luck!! :P
lori 16/f
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You've gotta also factor: What if...call me crazy but...what if the grass really IS greener on the other side? Instead of dreading about all the things that could go wrong, you could also think of the things that could go right with the big move. You just won't know until you try!
And Jack's right (I think this is the second time I've run into him on here, haha) If he really IS "The One" then it wouldn't be a problem. However, just because you believe he's it doesn't mean that he is. There's a whole buffet out there, you should sample before you're sure.
cheers,
stargirl
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If you absolutely can't convince your parents to not move, then really, all you can do is accept it.
You can still stay in contact with "The One" through email, phone, IM, and a number of other things. If he really is "The One", moving away shouldn't matter. It's only a few more years until you're an adult and can move back. Then again, rarely ever do people find "The One" at such a young age, though it's possible. If it's really meant to be, it will be.
Maybe you can ask your parents to arrange that you live with relatives that live nearby?
I wish you the best of luck, I know how hard moving is.
--Jack
(16/m)
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