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condoms make sex painful for me
my boyfriend and i are somewhat sexually active but so far i've found that condoms have made sex quite painful like too much friction or something...help?! thanks.
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Possibilities.
You have an allergy to the spermicide (Nonoxyl 9) thats on the outside of most condoms.
- If this is the case, a way to test is to get a spermicide from CVS or walgreens and have him put a little on his finger and finger you with it. If it quickly begins to hurt, you have probably found your culprit.
You might have a latex allergy.
- Get a condom that does not have nonoxyl 9 lube on it and try that. If you still hurt, possibilities include latex allergy.
You might not be wet enough.
- He needs to warm you up a bit more. A bit more foreplay. It might be possible that buying a tube of astroglide wouldnt be a bad idea. They carry that at CVS/wal mart or where ever as well. Get that over K/Y. K/Y is terrible, gets sticky very very quickly.
Now, a follow up question. You specified condoms. Have you had sex without and it was fine? Any other info would help.
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You could go on the pill or just use lubricant.
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Try adding more lubricant like KY Jelly.
Whatever you do, don't go without one. They are made to protect you.
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