ME and my friend have beeen friends since first grade and now she has changed she still hangs out with us and stuff but made more friends and now acts all girlie and before never ever EVER girlie nad she nver has me over I allways have her over and stuff but now she just has all our friends and NEVE EVER has me and they tlak about it in my face I wrote a letter to her but not sure if I should give it to her because I still wanna be friends HELP HELP MElissa 13
about your friend i say that you should sit down and tell her how you are feeling and what she is feeling. Adolescence can change girls. It can make them something they are not and for others it can make them something they are. Everyone changes and you probably will too. New friends, new clothes, new things. It is just all part of the experience.
And trying not to be offensive here, but you sound like you are really desperate for you and her to be friends. I had that kind of relationship once, then the girl decided she didnt want me anymore and tossed me away. I realized she just walked all over me. And when she decided she wanted me, she would be buddy buddy again. But when she didnt, i did something worse. I waited for her. Now me and this girl was friends since 1st grade and we stopped hanging out in about 7th...that was how long it took me to realize. But i found friends that liked me for me. I found them. I didnt have to wait for that one friend. Now not saying that this girl isnt a true friend, but maybe you should look into the conversation. But if you see everything in this area fine, then talk to her alone. Dont write a note because she would think you are too scared to talk to her.
xoxo
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