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Im sick of being used.
So im fifteen. and i recently noticed that guys only use me. For example i know this one guy and he soo nice but hes like send me a naked picutre of yourself send me a naked picture of yourself. I didnt want to at all. i have a really bad past and i finally got away from it. And i didnt want to but i have a problem with like saying no and he kept bugging me about it asking me 24/7 for it. and its not like him hes not that type of guy which i thoguht was weird. so one ngiht i gave in and sent him one and he never said thank you or anything about it. and i just feel retarted and i ended up telling him off. and then of course once again i was the one who ended up apologizing. I just i need someone. and like i get too attatched to guys so fast they can totally take advantage of me and i know that i just cant say no cause im afraid ill loose them and i hate loosing people. i Just dont know what to do anymore. Thanks pleasseeee help me anyway you can thanks so much.
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you don't need someone. you WANT someone. there's a difference. no matter how many times you tell this to yourself nad others may say it to you, you can't let people take advantage of you. it may be hard, but you gotta be tough. as someone once told me, every one is replaceable no matter who it is. they may not be the exact prototype, but new is good. things change. if you lose people because they dont' like that you're standing up for yourself and being kinda mean, then they're the ones that are obviously taking advantage of you in some way.
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the best thing to do is tell them your feelings on it .
trust me , i use to have the same prblem . but i told my self i can do it
if you said no [ one ] time , you will find it so much easier next time you say no =]
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say no and if the person really cares for you they'll understand if not thats their problem always remember you come first no matter what never compromise your integrity and degrade your self worth for some stupid guy who does'nt even deserve you sorry i could'nt be more help
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You have to learn to say no. That's all there is to it. If you can't do that, you have a long, sad life ahead of you.
It's called respecting yourself and standing up for yourself. You deserve to do that for you, don't you think?
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