Question Posted Wednesday December 12 2007, 11:11 am
I have this boyfriend. And we always talk and stufff. But today he just walk pass me and didnt say nothing.So what do you think i should do. Also WHen we get into a fight we call each names.And after he gave me money and wants sexy from me.
karenR answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 8:33 pm: Dump him. He treats you like a prostitute.
Anyone who has sex for money is a prostitute.
He is using you. Dump him now. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ciao77 answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 6:41 pm: This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all. The fact that he gives you money after a fight, and wants sex, is an obvious sign that he is using you. He thinks that the money will make you happy, which may lead you to consent to having sex with him. To put it bluntly, he is using you for sex.
Another bad sign is that he walked past you without saying anything. If he did in fact see you, he should have acknowledged your presence. It isn't good either that you two call each other names when you fight. There shouldn't be a reason to fight a lot in the first place, and the fact that you two insult each other like that is not a good sign.
What you do about it is up to you. But don't let him think that he can get away with everything. It's obvious that you are upset about him using you for sex, and insulting you...and ignoring you to top it off. He is not being respectful, and I think you should let him know that the next time you talk to him. Just let him know exactly how you feel, but try not to be angry or yell, since then he won't listen. And to be honest with you, he sounds immature and disrespectful. You can do better than that. I'm not in your shoes, but what I can tell you is that you should at least step back and think about all this. If he consistently demeans and disrespects you, then he really is not at all worth your time.
:EDIT: Listen, just dump him. He is objectifying you and using you for sex. Point blank, dump him now and move on. [ ciao77's advice column | Ask ciao77 A Question ]
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