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Me & Her Don't Want To Keep It Secret
There's a lady I love, and I've know her for more than a year. Recently she broke up with her boyfriend who not one person liked, but she told nobody but me. Since then she spent a lot of time with me. A ridiculous amount of time, and we've gotten together now, but we decided that it be best that nobody knows, because of the atmosphere of people where we work is pretty horrible.
Now somewhere in between spending time together one day she decided to tell my best friend that she broke up with her boyfriend. Now he knows that she's single, but not that I'm her boyfriend. This is where the problem is the greatest: he wants to have a relationship with her now. He told her this, and even though it's was made clear to him that she doesn't want to he thinks that she just hasn't got over the loss of her boyfriend mean while the truth be that she don't like him for he puts on acts, and I'm her boyfriend.
So far our secret is still kept safe, but other people are seeming to get suspectful: the people who see us together.
Well I'd just like some people's opinions about this situation in general: does it sound OK? Also I'd like to hear some advice about how to handle the problem with my best friend who is trying to flirt with her all the time, because he thinks that she's single: she I just not tell him or tell him in a proper manner. Thank U
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Simple answer is the same you have gotten so
far. Simply don't hide the relationship.
If you aren't allowed to date co-workers, then
one of you should find a different job. If it
is just talk you are afraid of, ignore it and
tell the nosy ones that your relationship is
none of their business. It can be done in a
polite way. Just agree that neither of you are going to discuss any part of it with your co-workers.
If the relationship is legit and she isn't
indeed really using you. Just tell and be done with it. Hiding it is accomplishing nothing and
is in fact causing you to have to lie.
Good luck. :)
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I don't understand why you're hiind a relationship with a person that you love. Love is a wonderful thing and it should never be hidden! Just tell you friend nicely that you two have been together kind of secretly and ask him to tone it down. He will probably be more embarassed than mad, but if you two are good friends it should all work out fine.
-16/f
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You shouldn't hide your relationship. You hide things you're ashamed of. Let your friend know you are together; that's the best way to solve the problem. Besides he's your best friend, you shouldn't keep things like this from him.
::Jasmine::
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