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My boyfriend and I don't see eye to eye.
Hi All,
This is the low down, I have a boyfriend we have been going out for approx. 2 months it's been quite rocky as we both approach relationships differently but recently he seems to be really getting on my nerves to the point where I can't even controll my anger. He recently got a car which he said he needed badly to get to work and back and I was all for it I was supportive throughout the process. But now it's become more then Just a car for going to work and back now every week-end or randomly during the week he goes out with his brothers and friends and comes back late at night and during that period he won't even text me to say his safe and missing me. He even tells me little white lies about where he's going with his friends I have no problem with him going out because I trust him. But I've taken the backseat in this relationship because of his car. He gets very annoyed or angry when I tell him about his faults and he just replies ''ok'' to everything. I just feel neglected and I just feel his not romantic enough he doesn't even take me on dates nor do small things for me to show he cares. Nor makes time for me anymore.
If there's anyone out there who could please give me some advice on how I should handle this situation with him beacause he has an attitude when it comes to problem solving.
Thank-you all for your time..
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tell him straight up what you told all of us. if he really does care, he'll put it into consideration and change. but if he's a total jerk and doesn't care about your feelings, then honestly, he's not worth it.
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Look hun, if things have been really rocky after only two months, and you are feeling neglected and both of you are dealing with your anger poorly, you don't have a 'problem solving' issue, you have a 'dump him already' issue.
EVERYONE is on thier best behavoir at the begining of the relationship. If this is the best you two can be for eachother, yipes!
Cut your losses and look for someone else.
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you are at the time in a relationship where the "honeymoon period" has ended. you guys have gotten to know eachother more, and learn about eachother a lot. you just need to confront him, and tell him how you have been feeling, and see if things change. if nothing changes then it is probably best that you go your seperate ways rather then staying around and getting attached to someone who isn't right for you.
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The key to a good relationship is communication. The only thing you can really do it talk to him about this. Let him know how you are feeling, and if you are really serious about eachother, you'll work it out. Maybe it's best to move on; you never know till you talk it out.
-16/f
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